kubic2 Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 If you have an idea of what I can do to win back my ex please post it here. The only guidlines are I have no money to spare My car is well dead Any ideas will be appreciated even if say give her flowers Thanx
Author kubic2 Posted April 28, 2006 Author Posted April 28, 2006 I forgot to mention her likes/dislikes She loves the beach, country music, camping, frongs, butterflies, faeries, basically all those typical girlly things. She doesn't like going to bars or clubs, she'd rather sit at home and watch a movie. She is very loyal and dedicated to a relationship and her family. She is a Taurus so if you read about what a Taurus is, that is a textbook definition of what she is. Her B-day is May 5 ( next friday ) so ideas for that would help to I'm just not good at this kind of thing and it is my first relationship. Again thanx for your help and ideas.
chocolate_boy Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 If you have an idea of what I can do to win back my ex please post it here. The only guidlines are I have no money to spare My car is well dead Any ideas will be appreciated even if say give her flowers Thanx Sorry to dissapoint but there is no way to "win" someone back, and if a relationship has strained to the point of breakup, flowers won't fix the problem. Ur ex needs to come back on their own, just give them some space and be patient.
Author kubic2 Posted April 28, 2006 Author Posted April 28, 2006 I know I may not be able to win her back. I just care about her so much that I still want to do somthing special for her. That's how much she means to me. thanx for your reply
KittenMoon Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Read: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/?highlight=guide
2sunny Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Not that this would help "win her back" because I'm not sure that is in the equation, but a very nice hand written card with sweet and kindhearted thoughts about how you admire or respect her would be nice. Also a few words about some of the fun things you have appreciated sharing with her can go a long way.... without a lot of money involved. PS. It's not about the money or expense when you are trying to tug at a gals heartstrings. Even a collage (sp) with pictures of events and fun times that you have shared together is a fun thing to receive....
luvtoto Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 I know I may not be able to win her back. I just care about her so much that I still want to do somthing special for her. That's how much she means to me. thanx for your reply Sorry you are having a hard time letting go, Kubic. What you are feeling is called the bargaining stage of grief. If you read up on stages of grief, this will help you understand your feelings better.
visotech Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 When we broke up this was my first thought "how can I win her back"... After some deep thinking, do I really want to "Win" her back? Do I want the future of our interaction/relationship to be based on me doing a few things to "win" her back? If shes going to come back shes going to come back because she is in love with you as a person - not with the flowers you give her, a picnic you take her on, etc. If anything, the idea for "wining" someone back is giving them space, enough space to realize they miss you. And at the same time that space will allow you to detach yourself from them, you're an individual, you can live your own life, and once you realize that you may not be so intent on winning her back. Now, you can still do something nice for her birthday, but that all depends on how comfortable you are around eachother at the moment, and how the breakup went. Try to think like a friend more than a lover, you don't want to make her bday into the usual valentine type affair that most relationships do, just keep it simple like her best girlfriend would, a cute gift and a casual hangout. You might want to be careful with gifts, don't give her mixed messages (flowers, jewelry..)
dr strangelove Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Kubic -different things may or may not cause her to come around. It depends on alot of factors. - How long ago did you break up? - are you on good terms still ie still talking, is she initiating contact? - is she civil to you?
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