Noos Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Has anyone seen these advertised on the web? They are e-books. Are they worth a look if I don't know what I'm doing wrong with guys vis-a-vis attitude, body language, demeanour etc? I need info on why they don't approach me at ALL!
ReluctantRomeo Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Books may help. But the best starting point surely has to be to ask male as well as female friends what they think you're doing wrong. Do a survey, see what the results are.
Author Noos Posted April 28, 2006 Author Posted April 28, 2006 I've done that. I'm told that I look unapproachable but I don't know how to stop looking unapproachable other than smiling at everyone like a lunatic.
ReluctantRomeo Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Do you mean unapproachable when guys see you randomly in public (which may be a good thing) or unapproachable to guys who are in your friendship circle? Are you extraverted or introverted?
Outcast Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 You see, you don't need to take that attitude. It's not about 'smiling at everyone like a lunatic' but if your inner thoughts are morose, then they will appear on your face and how eager are YOU to approach someone with gloom on therir puss? It's not a difficult thing to look pleasant. You may not necessarily be smiling, but there's a big difference between an open, welcoming expression and the faces of people who look generally displeased, unhappy, frustrated, or any of the other negative emotions.
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