orion123 Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 i am 19 years old and have never had a gf a girl iv been talking to on msn for about a week wants to meet tomorrow and i honestly need advice on what to do i am really nervous and have even had second thoughts about goin to meet her but i really want to any advice you could give to help me relax if nothing else would be much appreciated
MadDog Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 Just accept it's normal to be nervous on the first date of your life (don't tell her that though--try to act cool and calm.) Then realize that even if this date or girl doesn't work out, there will always be more. Do some fun active stuff like miniature golf, go karts, etc. where you'll be too caught up in the fun to realize you're nervous.
Pyro Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 Just be yourself, no BS,no putting on an act. Be confident. A girl will be able to tell whether or not you are confident. Let her know that you are interested in what she is saying as well. You'll be fine.
MadDog Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 Just be yourself, no BS,no putting on an act. Be confident. A girl will be able to tell whether or not you are confident. Let her know that you are interested in what she is saying as well. You'll be fine. This is huge. Try to ask her a lot of questions about herself. Preferably, you're asking more questions about her than she is about you. There's nothing girls respond to more than a guy who cares about who they are.
Pyro Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 Exactly. Don't end up having the majority of the conversation be about yourself. It makes you look and sound like you are full of yourself and that is a turn-off to most woman.
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