Twink Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 So me and my ex have not been together for about two weeks, I have had a really hard time with the no contact. Well anyways, last time I have seen him was last sunday to return some of his things, we had a talk, he said he was angry and irrated with everything. He could not answer why, but he saw our future getting worse. He said he knows what he wants in the future and he wants me to be a part of that. Well he tells me he does not need me he wants me. The end of the converstation he gives me a hug says see ya around I love you. Well I have been trying really hard with the no contact. But today I remembered he had some pictures of my son on his phone I wanted. So I sent him a text to send the pictures of me. He sends the picture to me and says That was Fun! Then he sends me a picture of myself making a silly face. I told him thanks but don't want the one of me because I look silly. Know I am upset again, because he never said your welcome or anything. Just sent the pictures, I mean I know I got want I wanted. But I still Love him and want him back so much, I want to say more to him. Should I just stop and leave it at that?
lovelorcet Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 I am sorry that you are feeling so bummed out but maybe you could take a minute and try to learn from this experience. Starting NC really sucks, there is no other way to put it and believe me I know as well. When you break NC you will most likely never get what you are really looking for. You really want your EX to be standing at the door begging to come back and that just is not going to happen by breaking NC. So you were missing your EX and feeling bad, you broke NC and now you feel worse. Remember that the next time you are feeling the need to break NC. The first 2 weeks of NC was really hard for me but it does get better, that I can promise you. Good luck!
aleatoryd Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Sometime NC and time... lots of time are the only ways to get through these situations. Keep your focus on your son and try and get him out of you mind as difficult as this sounds and will be. I think he sounds confused and you both need to move on. There clearly must have been issues as to why your relationship ended and until those are resolved (IF they are ever resolved) then you need to rebuild your life. Good luck!
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