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I keep saying that I must have been a very bad person in another life for this to be happening to me now. Or if it was not for bad luck I would have no luck at all.... Karma, it's right there with the others...

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WW....

 

I certainly ponder that thought!!

 

I sometimes think, that perhaps this is something I really needed! I'm not quite sure what right now because I'm in process. Maybe once I have moved through it all, there will be something HUGE in it for me.

 

*BIG HUG*

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For me, I do believe in "what goes around, comes around", (karma). I would like to think at some point people feel the wrath of their selfishness.

 

I do realize we have choices and as the OW, I could have chosen not to involve myself and I also know the reason why I did! "Selfish". However, I did also choose to stop the A and believe I have suffered terribly and therefore got what I deserved. Had he? Not even close!

 

Do you think that you were the selfish one? I'm leaning towards the H and ultimately the W. If she had given him everything he ever wanted and needed, he would not be looking elsewhere.

 

Unless you had some other motive, I don't think I would call you the selfish one but ultimately, you are right, we are the ones who suffer more than they do. I apply your "goes around" rule to them as well... eventually, they will set their sights on someone who is really bad news and finally get what they deserve...

 

I am trying not to be that person, but I may probably resort to it...

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