scooter62788 Posted April 26, 2006 Posted April 26, 2006 I've been with my fiance for 10 months. I proposed because its just one of those things I knew. She is perfect for me and I really appreciate everything she does for me and I love the way she treats me and loves me. I would do anything for her. You could say I have an obsession...but its healthy. But anyways, I trust this girl with all my heart but when she talks to other guys I get jealous. I know deep down that she would never do anything with any guys. But all girlfriends in the past have cheated on me at one time or another. But we've been together 10 months and Ive still got jealousy problems. She has the same problem but it doesn't seem to bother her as much. We are so deeply in love. I think it may be my subconscious thinking that I dont want any guys having a chance of taking her away from me. I LOVE HER TO DEATH and she LOVES ME TO DEATH! What is the matter with me?
Pyro Posted April 26, 2006 Posted April 26, 2006 I've been with my fiance for 10 months. I proposed because its just one of those things I knew. She is perfect for me and I really appreciate everything she does for me and I love the way she treats me and loves me. I would do anything for her. You could say I have an obsession...but its healthy. But anyways, I trust this girl with all my heart but when she talks to other guys I get jealous. I know deep down that she would never do anything with any guys. But all girlfriends in the past have cheated on me at one time or another. But we've been together 10 months and Ive still got jealousy problems. She has the same problem but it doesn't seem to bother her as much. We are so deeply in love. I think it may be my subconscious thinking that I dont want any guys having a chance of taking her away from me. I LOVE HER TO DEATH and she LOVES ME TO DEATH! What is the matter with me? Lots of us have insecurities in our lives. I have had the same insecurity as you before. I know, its tough. You just have to realize that for the past 10 months, she has devoted her time to you and you only and she has shared her heart with you. I don't think that she would have committed to you and you only if she didn't want to have a serious relationship with someone. You shouldn't enter into a marriage until you defeat this insecurity that you have toward her. It may lead to worse things down the road which may complicate your marriage.
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