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How much were your love partners alike physically?

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2sunny Established Member

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I tend to be attracted to a certain type of man - I guess now that I think about it.

 

Curious as it is, most of them are the same look and build as my brothers.

 

People used to think that my husband and I were siblings.

 

So, to be descriptive....

 

tall - at least 6 feet tall - more likely leaning towards 6'2" - dark hair - a good build (I don't like them too skinny) but something to hold onto and that makes me feel safe and secure - usually green or blue eyes (don't know why it seems to be this way)- a very strong and humorous intelligent personality will get me every time if you throw that in the mix. Most of all, they HAVE to love baseball and sports in general.

 

Never attracted to a blond, go figure... here in Cali - I tend to view them as not as strong. I know that is superficial and shallow, but just my stupid outlook on my desires and preferences.

alphamale Established Member

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Eva Braun was from Minnesota.

yeah....maybe thats why the Neo-Nazis are based out of Minneapolis-St. Paul :laugh:

basscatcher Established Member

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I don't think so...:laugh:

 

According to the year 2000 US Census the average percentage of white folk in the entire country is 75.1%. The state of Minnesota is 89.4% white. Thats quite a statistical difference.

 

North of St. Cloud I would say there is few minorities except hispanic and native but you get in the twin cities and their is a lot of them. At least where I drive and shop there is. I believe they are concentrated in areas.

alphamale Established Member

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North of St. Cloud I would say there is few minorities except hispanic and native but you get in the twin cities and their is a lot of them. At least where I drive and shop there is. I believe they are concentrated in areas.

oh...I did not know there were ghettoes in Minnesota :lmao:

basscatcher Established Member

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oh...I did not know there were ghettoes in Minnesota :lmao:

 

Yes there is m'dear. My aunt and uncle live in one. Its not a safe neighborhood to be in. Especially if your very pale skinned and light haired. They have advised me to not come visit unless its Sunday (quiet day of activiity) and I notify them of my arrival.. There is gun fire, drug deals, gangster activity all the time. Its all over the news. Every night theres reports of shootings and the like.

alphamale Established Member

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They have advised me to not come visit unless its Sunday (quiet day of activiity)

hey, ya know....even criminals and hoodlums need a sabbath :laugh:

burning 4 revenge Established Member

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hey, ya know....even criminals and hoodlums need a sabbath :laugh:

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

basscatcher Established Member

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hey, ya know....even criminals and hoodlums need a sabbath :laugh:

 

Minnesota may not be as bad as some others when it comes to diversity and crime. We do have our share. Its in pockets. This last week the news media has announced that some task force has came in again. (said they haven't been in Minnesota since 1995 during some rioting!?)

 

Meth labs are all over. I heard that Minnesota and North Dakota have very high rates of Meth use and production.

 

My sons old daycare worker was busted a few years back for having a lab in her garage. Her and her son were nailed.

I was in shock..

She was my daycare provider when my son was a infant. That is very close to home.. She is Islantic (sp?)

ms_jnj Established Member

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Unless they are super pasty white with freckles :lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

 

Well, well, I am super pasty white with freckles! :) I prefer to call it porcelain skin with enough freckles on my nose to make me cute, lol. Gotta love those swiss ancestors. But then, I'm female and have to agree with you in that I like my men more on the tan side...

 

As far as my exes....They were both "brawny" though one a goodly amount of chub and the other did not. They were both dark in the hair and eyes, but one had black hair and dark, dark brown eyes and the other one had medium brown hair and pale prown eyes. One was tall and one was my height. Complete opposites in personality though, and one was just about a clinical moron and one remains the smartest person I've ever met in my life...*shrug*

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Well, well, I am super pasty white with freckles! :) I prefer to call it porcelain skin with enough freckles on my nose to make me cute, lol. Gotta love those swiss ancestors. But then, I'm female and have to agree with you in that I like my men more on the tan side...

 

See opposites atract.Next time a white guy takes his clothes off with the light off and he lights the room I will tell him his porcelain skin is blinding me ...:lmao:

 

Beauty is is the eyes of the BEER HOLDER :lmao:

riobikini Established Member

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Most were tall w/dark hair...but the physical feature that ran most similar -now that you've caused me to examine it- was they all had this nice profiled jaw and dimpled chin thing going on.

 

Over the last -say- fifteen, twenty years, most were athletic, white-collar professionals, who had been married previously, at least once, and were usually, about eight to ten years older than myself. I prefer it that way.

 

Most thought they knew what to do with their male 'equipment', but didn't, really.

 

That was ok.

 

Only one or two was in serious trouble in the size, effort, and knowledge department.

 

Most were gentlemen in the traditional sense (opened doors, treated me well, the way their mothers taught them) -a few faked the attempt and failed miserably. So they were dropped politely but firmly.

 

Most were sophisticated and intelligent enough to have great conversations with (I like smart people) -and then a few were simply reciting memorized passages from their past 'interesting' conversations they felt 'worked' on women. So they were 'dropped', also.

 

More physical features? -eyes and eyelashes, in particular...I notice them right away. Just about all of them had those dark eyelashes.

 

Biggest physical turn-on?

 

Thighs.

 

Can't go into why...(smile)....but the thighs get my attention. And they're either there or they're not. Only a small number have had the muscular thighs I like.

 

Interesting thread, RP.

 

-Rio

2sunny Established Member

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Are you sure you are not my double Rio?

 

Your taste is the same as mine, the dimple chin thingy I had forgotten about, but it stands true for my men as well...

 

My son has a cute one! :p

 

tall, dark, smart - dang I'm getting worked up just thinking about my preferences.....

kitten chick

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I always think that they all looked so different, which they did, but really the were all just super tall doofy cornfed boys all with lighter hair.

basscatcher Established Member

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the dimple chin thingy I had forgotten about, but it stands true for my men as well...

 

OMG Dimples, I love dimples.... A man with dimples (even in hhis chin) will swoon me...

alphamale Established Member

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OMG Dimples, I love dimples.... A man with dimples (even in hhis chin) will swoon me...

I have a dimple....it's at the end of my cock. :laugh:

whichwayisup Established Member

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I have a dimple....it's at the end of my cock. :laugh:

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

Yeah and splooge comes out of your dimple! :laugh:

2sunny Established Member

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I have a dimple....it's at the end of my cock. :laugh:

 

 

Somebody is horny and needs to get laid... :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

basscatcher Established Member

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I have a dimple....it's at the end of my cock. :laugh:

That dimple has a crown and I don't do men that think they are kings..

 

There are some limitations to dimples.

 

EX:

If I had dimples all over my "humps" would you still do the bump????

basscatcher Established Member

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I have a dimple....it's at the end of my cock. :laugh:

That dimple has a crown and I don't do men that think they are kings.. I want a prince..

 

 

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There are some limitations to dimples.

 

EX:

If I had dimples all over my "humps" would you still do the bump????

2sunny Established Member

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That dimple has a crown and I don't do men that think they are kings..

 

There are some limitations to dimples.

 

EX:

If I had dimples all over my "humps" would you still do the bump????

 

 

I love to BOW to the king! :lmao: :lmao:

basscatcher Established Member

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I love to BOW to the king! :lmao: :lmao:

 

If I am respected and have my freedom--and the crowned king remembers he was once a Prince and still had that integrity I have no problem.... I'll bow too.

 

Polishing the gold isn't a bad thing when it shines for you only..

riobikini Established Member

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But physical features are only the visual attraction, it's the material inside that's sparking those dimples to produce a particularly attractive grin, or the brain busy processing thoughts that cause his eyes to change color and display a change of mood, that really gets my undivided attention.

 

If the gray and white matter between his ears isn't producing enough to interest me, I can easily walk away from everything else.

 

Just as importantly, I look for a person well-grounded/connected to his duty as a responsible human being, i.e. a well-rounded intelligence, and sense of compassion and understanding for others. That's why I usually wind up with someone in a "helping" profession, or a person who has strong charitable concerns (similar to my own).

 

Those are also the kind of traits that can cause fluid integration into a relationship where there may already be children present. And that's something that is very important to me, -I have children.

 

If someone can't sit through a school play, or attend a soccer game, and show up at a local charity event in the same week, besides be expected home for family dinner at least once or twice a week, they simply won't fit in.

 

I'd give up strong, muscular thighs, sweeping eyelashes, and those lovely, coveted dimples just to have someone who has a genuine sense of family and values 'people' relationships more than showing off physical features any day.

 

-Rio

alphamale Established Member

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I'd give up strong, muscular thighs, sweeping eyelashes, and those lovely, coveted dimples just to have someone who has a genuine sense of family and values 'people' relationships more than showing off physical features any day.

or a dude who has a fat wallet :lmao:

2sunny Established Member

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But physical features are only the visual attraction, it's the material inside that's sparking those dimples to produce a particularly attractive grin, or the brain busy processing thoughts that cause his eyes to change color and display a change of mood, that really gets my undivided attention.

 

If the gray and white matter between his ears isn't producing enough to interest me, I can easily walk away from everything else.

 

Just as importantly, I look for a person well-grounded/connected to his duty as a responsible human being, i.e. a well-rounded intelligence, and sense of compassion and understanding for others. That's why I usually wind up with someone in a "helping" profession, or a person who has strong charitable concerns (similar to my own).

 

Those are also the kind of traits that can cause fluid integration into a relationship where there may already be children present. And that's something that is very important to me, -I have children.

 

If someone can't sit through a school play, or attend a soccer game, and show up at a local charity event in the same week, besides be expected home for family dinner at least once or twice a week, they simply won't fit in.

 

I'd give up strong, muscular thighs, sweeping eyelashes, and those lovely, coveted dimples just to have someone who has a genuine sense of family and values 'people' relationships more than showing off physical features any day.

 

-Rio

 

I'm on the same page as you Rio,

 

One thing I forgot about that I love is a very nice strong voice, that can get me hot and bothered so easily...

 

Sometimes life is just not fair when you feel horny though! :mad: :mad:

riobikini Established Member

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re;

 

Alpha: " or a dude who has a fat wallet "

 

 

I'm sure that most women do consider the earning potential and the financial means of the person they are thinking about dating -no one wants someone they have to support, or someone who is always broke and out of a job.

 

So, it goes without saying that a guy needs to be responsible in that area, too, although, he does not have to necessarily be wealthy.

 

I agree that some women do focus on the size of the wallet of their prospective 'dates' as a primary requirement, without considering other things.

 

Income level is important, and although anyone can get used to a change in income that produces a better lifestyle, most cannot accept steps downward from what they are used to, -and continue to live happily that way.

 

I suppose it can happen, -but I don't think it's "par for the course".

 

 

Being at a particular income level may also just be the tip of the discussion, because it can also, in alot of cases, give an idea of what kind of people you are used to hanging out with, the activities you pursue, and a few other tell-tale things about your value system, your appreciation of others, and what/who you consider important in your life.

 

It's not wrong to consider income level, -it's just wrong to make it the end-all be-all of your decision.

 

-Rio

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