20kevin06 Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Hi everyone, not sure where to post so decided to try in here. I am 17 and i am really desperate on some advice on actually getting somewhere with this girl because anyone else i ask aint got a clue! She is also 17, she is a really nice girl and she regularily drops me txt's and phonecalls and i also do too. I was told from a good friend of hers that she really likes me but that does'nt mean she wants a close relationship with me. I just really do not know what to do now, i am scared that if i ask her or say anything about a relationship i will just scare her away just the same as some other girls i have liked in the past. Any help would be appreciated so much, thanks everyone. Kevin.
JohnM Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 i am scared that if i ask her or say anything about a relationship i will just scare her away just the same as some other girls i have liked in the past. Kevin. Why were the others 'scared away'? Did you also have a feeling they liked you before you asked? Hey theres only one way to find out if she likes you, how did you approach the subject with the others girls?
Author 20kevin06 Posted April 30, 2006 Author Posted April 30, 2006 theres only been 1 or 2 occasions where i feel they have been scared away, im not worried completely about scaring her away i just do not know what to do or say now, its getting to the stage where i think something should be done before it starts to fade out, and im just really looking for some guidelines/tips/advise on how not to mess this up and take it to the next level..
Author 20kevin06 Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 oh well was worth a try but if any1 can help please say, im stuck in a rut! thanks
Walk Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 Ask her out on a date? Go get coffee together. Or a game of pool. Or go get dessert or something.
Author 20kevin06 Posted May 2, 2006 Author Posted May 2, 2006 yeah thanks, that could be an option, maybe ask her into town or something like that. what about if i suggest we could go out with a few of her friends and a few of mines, go bowling or something? what you's think?
Walk Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 I think the group thing would put the both of you most at ease. That was basically how my friends back then "dated". We'd all go out as a group, and they'd pair up. haha. Especially if she doesn't know you all that well, this might work better. But you'll have to make sure you actually spend time with her, sit next to her, talk to her... not just oogle her from the back of the pack.
Author 20kevin06 Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 cool yeah i know what u mean, i would obviously talk to her but not be too much in her face. thanks. im just getting some of these ideas in my head right now, waiting for the right moment to ask and what to ask, or suggest morelike.
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Don't know if you like this, but I found playing pool is a relaxing way to get to know someone.. You can talk while playing. You get to see how they handle defeat and victory. You can offer to teach them and stand really close. Or could attempt to skew their game (if their good) by teasing them. Same goes for bowling, but I like pool better. And we've got some pool halls arund here that are specifically for younger people who can't drink but want to go out. It's been so long, I can't remember what we really did. Mostly just hang out until someone kicked us out.
Author 20kevin06 Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 yeah i like pool, but im not sure about the girl, doubt its her thing.
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