Guest Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Imagine this was you: Very happy in your current relationship (lots of I love you's coming from you, wanting to spend alot of time with your g.f. staying overnight with one another 5-6 nights a week etc....) You are walking around with a constant smile on your face, life is good, you are in your bliss........ THEN: Out of the blue.....You recieve an email. It's from your EX. Your unrequitted love, the one you got hurt by, the one where there was no "closure", you have a long history with this woman, but.....she hasn't contacted you in over a year, AND you are very happy with your current g.f. Hypothetically what would you do? A) Answer the email---perhaps even just to answer her or let her know your "current situation" (even though she was a b*tch to you and hasn't contacted you in over a year and are happy with the new g.f) if you do reply to her email do you tell your current g.f. you wrote the ex? (which would really upset the new g.f and might hurt her as well) B) Ignore the email (and if you ignore it would you bother to tell your current g.f the ex wrote you?) Now keeping in mind, the EX was not good for you, and your current g.f. knows all about the history and how devasted you were when you broke up. The current g.f. has some element of "insecurity" surrounding your relationship with this particular ex (none of the other ex's just this one...long story....) and again, it has been a full year of NC from either party.
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