Purvis Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 me and my "girlfriend" are currently "seperated" because shes "not over her ex yet" and that its not fair to me and i love her and this is just killing me inside, i have to cry myself to sleep i cant focus on my school work, or anything else for that matter, and she says we'll get back together eventually because she really cares about me but i dont know when that is and...idk this is all just really painful for me...
Author Purvis Posted April 25, 2006 Author Posted April 25, 2006 I guess i just want to know what i should do
MadDog Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 I'll tell it to you straight. There's a significant chance she may never come around and get back together with you. It's possible the relationship you had before your "separation" was a rebound for her. For these reasons, it would be way healthier for you to try to move on and let her do her thing. If she comes around you can decide if you want to get back together with her. If she doesn't, at least you didn't waste time waiting on her for nothing. How long was your relationship before you two got together?
clynn Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 I'm in a similar situation, in that my boyfriend broke up with me and about a month later I've started dating someone else. I like the new guy a lot, he is really sweet to me, and extremely cute. I would've considered myself extremely lucky to have gone out with him 1 year and a half or 2 years ago....before I met my ex. However, the relationship I got out of was very important to me and I loved my boyfriend very much. It is difficult for me to switch gears that easily. I really like the new guy a lot, adn I think that it can probably develop into something more serious. However, I too have thought that maybe I need to be single for a while so that I can start afresh with him. That being said........it is hard to say, and beyond my scope (and your girlfriends's) to even realize or recognize whether or not the relationship wtih the new guy would work in the future or not..... If I did break up with the new guy........I might just meet someone new in a couple months...or realize that no, he wasn't really suited to me anyhow..... SO, I would say...anything is possible, but don't go waiting around for her to change her mind. (In fact, I think it is a little selfish of her to ask you to!)
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