nofx_62784 Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Ok... so my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. For the most part we have a great relationship. we enjoy each others company. I love her, and I know she loves me. But she also has this issue with her emotions. When she is upset, she is IRATE. Nothing I can say or do, no matter how hard I try to make the situation better. Over the coarse of our relationship, I have lived with her at her moms, and we have since moved out of state, and on our own. We have been away 6 months now, and I feel like it has gotten worse(more often). I belive she may have a chemical imbalance, or maybe she has clinical depression, or is Bipolar. Sometimes it seems she is trying find somthing to be upset about, even the smallest thing could trigger it. I want, and try with all my power to be as patient and understanding as I can be. Half the time I dont succeed, and I end up getting upset also. Its been happenening often enough to where everyday in the past week I have wanted put my fist through somthing, call it quits, and just cry. Just thinking about when we are happy and how much I love her keeps me around though. It is so hard for my mind to comprehend why she is upset, and why she cant just let things go. She called me a couple of days ago at work upset, and I put her on hold and 3-way called her mother. Seeing how upset her daughter really was inspired her to drive over 700 miles to where we live. I feel calling her mom was the right thing to do, because she needs more help than I can give her....
Robot Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Hi, One of my best mate is going through the same problem with his gf. Does your gf get as bad as suicidal? Her family has traits of this problem. Consequently, he told me the best thing to do is to get lots friends around to talk things, avoid alchol, and make her have goals (short, medium and long term) so you guys will always concerntrate to achieve something. You need to know that there is medicine for depression etc. My friend's gf is taking it. Consult the professionals. Finally, good luck with everything. I hope the mother helped. Chat with her to work on a solution. You might feel like you are sacrafising alot for her, as guys, we make mistakes by not taking notice of the gf side of logic. Please take care before making any rash comments. Cheers
Author nofx_62784 Posted April 26, 2006 Author Posted April 26, 2006 I dont think she gets suicidal. When its at its worst, she says she hates herself, and apologizes repeatedly. Her mom is getting her help, and Im in the dark, besides what her mom has told me over the phone. Im glad I called, its needed to happen for a long time. thanx for your advice
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