everybody_chill Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 I have been back on the dating scene for about 2 years. There are a lot of things I have learned to hate about dating. Lately, I have seemed to reach a new pinnacle of obscurity and would like to get other's opinions. I always try to talk to a lot of girls when I go out (being a single guy) and I often get phone numbers and / or exchange numbers with girls I meet. If I give a girl my number or take hers, I definately intend on calling. I don't give it out if I am not interested. So my concern is this: Over the past few months I have been given approx. 10 numbers from different girls. I think only maybe 2 of them I ever was able to get in touch with. What's the deal? I will call the girl and leave a message and then nothing...... the black void I don't understand - are they just too kind to say no to begin with? The one girl actually took my phone from me and put her numebr in it. I called her a few days later...... she could have moved to Mars for all I know. It does not seem to add up. I realize that there could be a billion differet reasons for this behavior. Is this normal though?
MadDog Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 You might not be building enough rapport with the girls. They might give you their number but if you don't at least talk to them for a while to show them that you'd be a fun guy to date, they won't necessarily go out with you. Way more than 20% of the girls you call up should be going out with you. Try to talk to them more when you get their number in the future.
Author everybody_chill Posted April 25, 2006 Author Posted April 25, 2006 You might not be building enough rapport with the girls. They might give you their number but if you don't at least talk to them for a while to show them that you'd be a fun guy to date, they won't necessarily go out with you. Way more than 20% of the girls you call up should be going out with you. Try to talk to them more when you get their number in the future. Not bad advice, but I believe I have been doign a good job of talking to them. I talked to the girl for like 3 hours that put her number in my phone. Then i call and she never calls me back?
allina Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Are these drunk girls at a bar? If so their attitudes may change the next day, or they might not remember much about you.
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