jimeny cricket Posted April 24, 2006 Posted April 24, 2006 Ok basically my Ex came back and after 5 months of NC we saw each other out but we didnt get a chance to speak. She then later in the evening texts me saying, "hope i had a nice time out and also said that she heard that me and one of my friends were now seeing each other and said why didnt i tell her that i was seeing her! But then im not seeing this girl as we are just friends and never be anymore. But i dont know why she wants me to tell her if i end up seeing someone, as she didnt tell me when she was seeing somone a friend just knew and told me. So i say that i wasnt seeing her and how she manage to hear that and said that i was sorry that i didnt get a chance to speak to her that night as i was catching up with other university friends. She then replied saying thats alrite it was a hectic night catching up with people. no matter what any of my friends said to her that i would never stop caring, which im kind of guessing me caring for her but my friends tell her that they think i dont, but of course i do still so i said to her, why would i stop caring thats stupid. The next day she then phones me during the day and we talk on the phone for 2 hours catching up and having a nice chat to each other and it was realy nice to get along with her again. I then recieve a text later in the evening from her saying that it was realy nice to speak to me again and hoped i was having nice evening.....but at the end of it she puts, " you know im still missing you loads"... That last part has completly thrown me, we went out for about 7 months and had a great time together and ended because she had to go to university. She met someone at university and has been with them for a couple of months now, so i dont understand why she has to feel the need to come and say this to me when she knows im single and she is with someone. It has put me into a place where that im thinking about her again alot more frequently and missing her alot again. I was missing her still before she said this but it resurfaced it all again. What do you think it means her saying this, or what do you think i should do?
mental_traveller Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 It means she misses you. Her current relationship is not fully satisfying her, and it's common in such cases to think about your ex. Also if she split up because she was moving away, then it wasn't any inadequacy on your part that caused the split. So maybe you look in a better light compared to her bf. However I would say that this behaviour reflects poorly on her character. How would you feel if you were the bf? She's going behind his back, talking to her ex saying how she misses him. Really I would stay well clear of this. I'd tell her don't bring up anything of a romantic nature, and just stay purely platonic friends. I mean if you want to be a bit of a bastard, you could read into this that she wants you back, and then go win her. But she's proven she's hardly a morally upstanding individual, and do you really want to be with someone untrustworthy like that? Best to stay clear IMO.
russia53129 Posted April 27, 2006 Posted April 27, 2006 I would say that you stay clear. You've had enough time to get over her and if she's gonna go behind her current boyfriend to get to you, who's to say she won't do the same to you further down the road and hurt you again? Good luck!
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