sweetguy01 Posted April 24, 2006 Posted April 24, 2006 Hi, This is very awkward. My girlfriend is very beautiful, thin, great body, etc. I am overweight, need to lose about 80 lbs. So needless to say I am no GQ thin guy. I am cute though.. I know Im not ugly or anything. Anyway... I love her with all my heart.. more then anything in the world. I am so good to her and treat her like gold. She tells me she loves me all the time... and I know she does love me. The problem is with intimacy. Everytime I want to have sex, she makes excuses or avoids it. Then when we do have sex, it seems like a total chore for her and she isn't into it at all. I asked her last night if she is just not sexually attracted to me, and she got defensive at first, but as we talked she started crying and said that she wasn't and that I was right about everything. She cried and said the didn't want to lose me and still wants to be with me and wants a life with me... she said that maybe if I lost weight she would be more attracted to me. She wants me to assure her that we will still be together, but all I could say is that i do love her but I dunno. I have done nothing but cry. I am so upset. What am I suppose to do? I could feel the rejection, and how she would act or be when having sex and I asked her before but she said I was wrong. I asked her this morning why she didn't just tell me, and she said cause she didn't want me to be sad and break up. ???
Author sweetguy01 Posted April 24, 2006 Author Posted April 24, 2006 She wants me to stay with her, but wants me to lose weight so she would be attracted to me... what would anyone else do?
clynn Posted April 24, 2006 Posted April 24, 2006 If you're going to lose weight, you should do it so you can feel better about yourself, not for her. How can she possibly know if she would be more attracted to you if you lost weight?
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