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Ok hang with me this is kind of a long story but I will make it as short as possible.

 

Ok so this time last year I started dating this guy that I had known pretty much my whole life. We were friends when we were younger and started to hang out again. Well I was just getting out of a long relationship at the time and wasn't really ready to start dating seriously again so we took it kind of slow and everything. Well we had a lot of fun together. We never fought or anything. This past fall I told him I just needed some time (which was the truth) I know it sounds cliche but it was true. He was understanding and we remained friends. I didn't expect him to wait around on me or anything I took that chance of him going to be with someone else or moving on. Well this past Valentines day he asked me if I wanted to do something and I said yes. He sent me flowers and we went to dinner and had a good night. Everything went well for about a week and I realized that this is what i want. Well he started acting different. He told me he needed to think so i gave him a week and then we talked and he said that he just didn't want to be in a relationship right now. Which was odd because he was the one who asked me out for V-day and everything. I know I hurt him before but this time really is different and it wasnt like I ever cheated on him or dumped him for another guy it was nothing bad. Recently we have hung out and had a good time and we talk on the phone occasionally. He told me the other day if he was going to date anyone right now it would be me. I totally trust this guy. I am not naive. He is a really good guy and a really honest guy. He has never lied to me. I know he just wants to be left alone right now but it is hard. I sometimes just get this urge to call him and I know its just not right. I know he loves me still because he told me and I know he still cares about me. I asked him the other night if he saw us getting back together in the furture and he said yes but he just doesn't know when he will be ready. What is the best way to handle this? I just need some really good advice and something I cant keep telling myself everytime I want to call him. I don't want him to think I do not care so that is why i still call and stuff. Even though he knows I do. What should I do here to make him want me like he used to because I know it is still possible. It hasn't been that long ago at all. Thanks

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