vin1272 Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 always had suspicion that my girlfriend was cheating on me. just a gut feeling. she always said that she wasnt a cheater and that she would never do that to me. found out the other day that she in fact cheated on me.....i found the evidence (condoms) in her bedroom. she denied it and swore that she didnt cheat..told me that a friend used her room to have sex with her boyfriend. after swearing that she didnt cheat she finally admitted to doing it. she even had me talk to one of her friends before that who lied for her and told me that it in fact was her and her boyfriend who used her bed ot have sex. anyway...she admitted to it (blaming drugs and her bad influence friends) and is crying and seemingly very sorry and bothered that she made a mistake. what really bothers me is the lies and that i cant hellp but feel that she cheated on me before this. a week earlier after she told me she was going to bed, i decided to go over her house and just as i got there a guy "friend" of hers was leaving the house. she said it was just a friend (she does have guy friends) and i believed her. any thoughts on this? thanks...vince
Adunaphel Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 You got a few replies when you posted a few days ago, check them out. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t86598/?highlight=vince Sorry, your situation does not look good.
westernxer Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 I think you're a fool for putting up with this.
whichwayisup Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 blaming drugs and her bad influence friends Because of this, I would seriously worry. That is bulls***, blaming other people for her cheating. IT was HER choice to do this to you. Very selfish and she didn't think of the consquences of her actions. Take some time for yourself, figure out what YOU want. If you feel that you two can work through this, and she is worth it, then try fixing things. But, if you don't feel that you can trust her ever again, maybe it is best to end the relationship now and be with someone else who won't cheat and will be more trustworthy.
Curmudgeon Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 Infidelity is the one deal-breaker for me. Anything else can be handled and dealt with but that. To each their own!
burning 4 revenge Posted April 24, 2006 Posted April 24, 2006 That same thing happened to me just before X-mas. She cried and begged and I forgave her. By Jan 2, 2006 the guy she cheated with moved into her house and all of a sudden I was FWB. Of course, after a nine month relationship I wasn't agreeable to this so she said fine she still loved me, but from now on as her best friend. F*ck that sh*t.
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