Dagny Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 Interacting with someone you're dating can be such a chore. Blah Blah Blah, I suppose I better get on with the story. So it involved a fastfood resturant, a kitchen knife and a psycho homeless guy thats how we met. Knew each other for 2 month as friends, dated for a week. Decided he was not ready for a relationship, broke up but remained friends. He called me once every alternate day even though we were "friends". Lets go to a movie, lets hang out, lets whatever. Drops by at 2 am in the morning to talk, ends up in conjugal matters. So it goes on, la di da. I get antsy. Something is not right. Have vague suspicion am being taken for a ride. We go to a movie, he totally completely ignores me and ends up talking to the people next to me. I get mad, even my friends don't treat me like that. The next time he pops up, I tell him that such behavior is not cool. He talks about how we misinterpret each other and we need to communicate better. That when I point out to him his faults he feel defensive, like he has to take responsibility. We need to work together! I nod in surprise, what an epiphany. Yes yes yes! Its all about communication! He gets grumpier throughout his own communication spill. I ask for a hug, he yells "What do you want from me" and leaves, leaving the wench in a flood of tears. I get really mad. I helped him with some of his applications, he never said a word of thank you. He yelled at me. Hell even the people who progenied me don't yell at me. I write to him and say, "you're rude and ill behaved, you don't appreciate me. I don't want anything from you." I start ignoring him, louts do not deserve my time. I hear no word from him for the next 2 days. Then he pops up and says, "ignoring me will only hurt me more than it hurts you." That enrages me even more. I spew fire. I rage about how I don't talk to ill behaved people, he has a nerve threatening me instead of apologizing, he did'nt give me more than anyone else i dated, I'm moving, he can sod off and never see me again." Not a peep out of him for the next 2 days. Now I feel like a bitch, I hate raging at people. Should I be put into the looney bin? Am I the psycho woman that sits at the foot of your block stalking you till you call the police? And I miss him. Must be a sucker for torture, I should just buy myself a whip. Should I patch up? What do I do? Pearls of wisdom at this swine's feet please.
CaliGuy Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 Boundaries - Cloud and Townsend. The answers are right there for you.
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