TheSwordfish Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Alright, todl you guys about my cancelded date and my stupid behaviour. Now, the girl was still on my MSN list. I decided not to say anything to her. Everytime I log on, she logs in three times, but I don't start conversations. Now she did that once again, and I didn't say anything. Now she blocked me. Not that it matters, but why the hell would she do that if I'm not saying anything anyway?
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 22, 2006 Author Posted April 22, 2006 That means she cares, lol. Not that I can do anything with it. Maybe I'll send her an E-mail sometime. Well its easy like this, don't have to say nothing to her because I don't know if she's online
climbergirl Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 That means she cares, lol. Not that I can do anything with it. Maybe I'll send her an E-mail sometime. Well its easy like this, don't have to say nothing to her because I don't know if she's online Hey, she obviously does care or at least has strong enough feelings to go to an extreme. If you haven't been IM'ing her-it seems like a waste of time/effort to block you. Otherwise she wouldn't bother.......right?! I stick with my gut instinct.
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 22, 2006 Author Posted April 22, 2006 Pleae explain. She blocks me because she wanted me to talk to her? (Wich I didn't). Or my screenname was to weird or something
climbergirl Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Pleae explain. She blocks me because she wanted me to talk to her? (Wich I didn't). Or my screenname was to weird or something I remember your past thread. She had the migraine.......right? I'm trying to think like her. I'm not exactly up to date on MSN IMing, but I believe you both can see when the other is online. Please correct me if I'm wrong. Therefore, you obviously know when you are blocked. My gut tells me she's very upset, esp. if you haven't even contacted her as of late. I mean, there really is no reason for her to block you unless to send a 'message' to you that you did something to upset her.........therefore probably to get a reaction. Blocking someone (unless in a long relationship) who isn't contacting you just doesn't make sense. And my theory is the best sense I can make out of it.
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 22, 2006 Author Posted April 22, 2006 Should I send her a short E-mail? (It doesn't make sense to me either)
climbergirl Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 e-mails are so impersonal. She said she wanted to be friends, call her as a 'friend', ask how she's doing, and state that you'd like to hang out sometime............something specific (event) would be good. If you want to hook up you gotta throw your pride out the window for the moment. Just don't be surprised if she doesn't answer the phone...be prepared for that.
brightskies Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 It could be that she deleted AND blocked you, so she doesn't have to see you online. Only users on your "allowed" list (under privacy settings) can see your online status. It's been pretty awkward all around, and maybe she just doesn't want to deal with it anymore.
whichwayisup Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Pleae explain. She blocks me because she wanted me to talk to her? (Wich I didn't). Or my screenname was to weird or something It's attention grabbing, reaction and all about ego right now. Try to look at it that way.
roxy_1980 Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 It doesn't much matter whether or not she blocked you, you're not talking anymore anyway.
kaneplacegirl Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 Sometimes it is easier to block someone on MSN then feeling rejected everytime the don't speak. I deleted a contact who was a friend because he stopped talking to me for no reason. Everytime the person is online rejection again I actually like this person but it is hard!
RecordProducer Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 Now, the girl was still on my MSN list. I decided not to say anything to her. Everytime I log on, she logs in three times, but I don't start conversations. Now she did that once again, and I didn't say anything. Now she blocked me. Not that it matters, but why the hell would she do that if I'm not saying anything anyway? How do you know you're blocked? You mean she deleted you? Well if you don't start any conversations with her and she obviously won't start them with you for whatever reason, what's the point of you being on her friends' list? She wrote you off as a friend, I guess. You said it didn't matter anyway.
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 23, 2006 Author Posted April 23, 2006 I'm still on her MSN list (you can see who has you on the list, in privacy options). But she blocked me for now (program shows that to me). I didn't speak to her at all on MSN lately. Why would she keep me on her list, and block me, if I don't say anything to her? (There is no point, she still sees me online, and I wouldn't say anything). I'm going to send her one short mail, just asking how she is (not mentioning te blocking of course) and say something about the way things went (in short). Don't wanne bump into her and get angry looks
MadDog Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 Oh Jesus. Are we still on migraine chick? Please, just give up on her. Are there no other girls in your whole city?
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 23, 2006 Author Posted April 23, 2006 Four others, at the moment, potential girls I date with. More telephone numbers though Not stuck on her. But this is making me laugh. So I just think about her. (only post problems here, thinsg going fine won't be posted)
mental_traveller Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 I block everyone I don't intend to talk to again.
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 23, 2006 Author Posted April 23, 2006 I have a lot of people blocked myself. Because they keep on talking to me while I'm busy. Deleted the ones I never want to talk to again. I block people I still want to talk to later on. Whats the point of keeping people on your list if you don't want to talk to them? Whats the point in blocking someone, that never speaks to you? Heres what I did, think she'll keep on blocking me but at least I don't feel like such an a**h*** anymore. Other dates coming, but I felt like sending her this. Send her a short E-mail asking her how she was. I told her I thought I reacted in a rude way when she called (didn't say that before) and that it was just because I was looking forward to go out with her. Told her I would still like to get to know her sometime, but that I would understand it if she doesn't want that. Wished her all the best.
kaneplacegirl Posted April 24, 2006 Posted April 24, 2006 she might feel rejected and would like to talk to you.
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 26, 2006 Author Posted April 26, 2006 I never had such a strange way of handling things myself and weird responses from a girl. Things used to be so easy, sometone saying I looked good, would go out with me. Well, guess her getting ill, me being an ass, then trying to make it up in strange way and then ignoring her on MSN, getting blocked because I dont speak, its all karma
Author TheSwordfish Posted April 27, 2006 Author Posted April 27, 2006 Will almost centainly bump into her tomorow (knowing she is kinda mad at me), have to go to a place, and have to pass the busstop she's always at. Can't avoid her in any way (one way to get there). So now I can either put on my Tom Cruise wannebe sunglasses and just drive by, I could only say hi, or even try to stop and talk a little. If I have a black eye tomporow, I'll post a picture
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