GiveAndTake Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Tomorrow will be 2 weeks since we broke up. I was fine until today. Suddenly, I miss him so much. We were dating only about 4 months and broke up so many times but usually end up back together within a couple of days. The relationship was such a roller coaster. But I think I love(d) him. I don't know because I've been hating him these last couple of weeks. I have to make this the official breakup. I cannot go back again. This breakup was us having a fight, him leaving my house and me getting a phone call from HIS cell phone the next morning only it WASN'T HIM! It was his ex-girlfriend telling me that he f***ed her all night. He called later that day and I don't know why, but I picked up the phone. He said he had a girl call and pretend to be her just to piss me off. Well, he pissed me off alright! I've had no contact ever since. I don't believe his story and I do think it was his ex but I doubt he slept with her. I say that only because I know him and he absolutely cannot have sex when he's upset. And he was very upset that night. Aside from that, I can't get passed how he was trying to hurt me like that. He called about 10 times later that week, I didn't answer. Then again a few days ago, I didn't answer. I really have been strong and I went on a date the other day and thought I was really moving on. I have been doing the No Contact thing successfully. But today, I miss him. I cannot call him. I have to move on but I'm afraid that he may try to call again. No, I'm actually hoping he calls again. I'm afraid I'll answer this time. I feel very weak today. He's really no good for me. I've been fine for 2 weeks so why do I suddenly miss him? UH
LN8840K Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 wow, you must like feeling upset and hurt. pick up the phone next time he calls and get your fix
Rosalind Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 pick up the phone next time he calls and get your fix err...uhmm...actually, I wouldn't recommend that. missing him is natural, but keep up the NC.
burning 4 revenge Posted April 23, 2006 Posted April 23, 2006 wow, you must like feeling upset and hurt. pick up the phone next time he calls and get your fix I agree. If you still love him then bare with him until he leaves you and doesn't want you in his life anymore.
Author GiveAndTake Posted April 23, 2006 Author Posted April 23, 2006 Well, He called again.... -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Even when he tries to get back together, I never really even get apologies and his phone calls are about nothing relevant to our problems or breakup. It drives me nuts which is why No Contact wasn't that difficult for the last 2 weeks. But now, stupid me, broke no contact He called twice last night while I was at a friend's wedding (a wedding he was supposed to have gone with me and that we were both really looking forward to.) I missed the calls but called him back. I left a message that I was returning his call. He called me today at home, I answered. The conversation went like this. HIM: How are you? ME: Good, I called because I saw that you called me last night, what's up? I was at that wedding. HIM: Oh, I was just looking for ****'s phone number but I got it. ME: Is that why you called, for the phone number???? HIM: Yes, but I have it now. HIM: You should have told me the wedding was last night, I would have gone with you. ME: We aren't even speaking to each other. HIM: Well, I don't know why. ME: I know why, because your ex girlfriend called me from your cell phone. and now you call me for a phone number and not even an apology???? HIM: (a bit angry now) I don't need to apologize for that. ME: (very angry now) Really??? You don't think so??? HIM: After that day I saw you flirting with that guy etc... Let me just explain that comment. He's a jealous idiot that thinks everyone wants me. The night in question he said I put my hand on some guys waist while we were playing pool. My bf was right next to me and I don't even recall doing that. AND we got back together since then anyway. This happened a month ago and it was ridiculous ME: First of all, we got back together since then and broke up again for a different reason and ALSO, that is not even close to the same thing as having your ex girlfriend call from YOUR cellphone. HIM: I was trying to tell you, I'm done with you by having her call. I was just looking for that phone number when I called last night. ME: Really, so what was the call about the other day? HIM: I couldn't find something and thought it may be at your house. ME: Really, and what about the 10 phone calls last week that I didn't answer? HIM: Oh, I was having a crisis but it doesn't matter now. Then he started rambling and I did too and he hung up on me. He's such and A$$!!! GRRRRRRRRR , I'm so stupid for speaking to him.
daphne Posted April 24, 2006 Posted April 24, 2006 Suddenly, you're my poster child for no contact. Yikes what an idiot. My ex and I didn't part on bad terms but if this is how ugly it can get then I want no part in it. I'll stick to my guns. I hope you go back to realizing you don't want or need him back. What a jerk! You kind of let him off the hook though by responding. He's not going to take responsibility for his stupidity until he realizes that there are consequences to his foolish behavior. I hope you feel better. Sorry you had to go through that.
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