clueless8 Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 I will try to make this as short as possible. ive been seeing this girls for 2 months now and we get along great, she is really nice to me and sweet. the problem is that the relationship is not moving forward at all. we were hooked up as a blind date my her friend and we are still going out 2 months later. her friend says she is really slow and likes to take her time, but she wont even let me hold her hand after 2 months, i just find that relly weird and it just does not seem right to me. I think she really likes me, she calls me more than i call her and never has any exuses if i ask her out. i told her how i feel about her and that i want the relationship to move forward but she kinda turned away from it and realy had nothing to say so i took her home, i though that was the end of it all because i figured that i pourned my heart out to this girl and she had no response as if she only sees me as a friend but she kept calling me the nexet day and we are stil going out, i bring her flowers and everything. i would think that if she just wanted friendship she would have told me and not go out with me on dates and accept flowers from me knowing that im not bringing her flowers for her frienship. is it possible for a relationship to move this slowly, ive never expieirenced it this slow before, a girl would usually be happy and respond if i told her that i liked her and told her how i feel, a irl would welcome that kinda stuff with open arms but not this girl, Im totally confused about this one, its like she likes me but she doesnt like me, im totally lost. im writing this today because im going out with her in a few hours and need some advice whether i should confront her again about us or just give it more time. please, i really like her and any advice would be appreciated.
MadDog Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Even if a girl is reserved, you'll be able to tell if she's into you. Just pay attention to how she looks at you, laughs at your jokes, etc. If you can tell she's into you, give her some more time. Of course if she doesn't eventually come around and start showing you some more love, then you'll have to move on.
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