PKman Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Ok.. im 21 year old guy.. and im interested in a girl shes turning 19.. but she has pretty strict parents.. so its hard to arrange a date with her. We met through a friend and i asked her out... we arranged to goto the shopping centre and meet there so her parents will not see her going out with me. Anyway on the day she called and said 'can you come pick me up from home?' as her parents werent home so i did. We got to the shopping centre.. had coffee and talked for a bit then went in for a movie. During the ads she got her phone out and i was thinking.. 'ahh s*** theres the burial for this date' but she started showing me photos of her and her little neice and giggling as i mocked her. I started dancing to some lame/annoying music in an ad which was embarassing but she was in tears (wont be doing that again soon lol) I took her home gave her a peck on the cheek. She messaged later that night and said she had a great time. A few weeks have gone past and shes been messaging me every now and then for a late night chat through sms. I told her to keep Tuesday free as i have something planned. She said 'excellent what we doing' and i said 'let me worry about that.. you just keep your schedule free ' Problem is i have no idea what to do on the second date.. lol Any ideas where i could take her? Should i make a move to kiss her on the second date? Shes a bit shy so it makes it harder for me.. Cant kiss her infront of her house because of her parents.. so where can i make the move and if i dont.. will she think im not interested? Sorry its so long.. thanks in advance.
MadDog Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 Do you have one of those amusement parks near where you live? The ones that have video games, miniature golf, go karts, etc? I think those places make for a good date because it's much more interactive and allows for better conversation than a movie. The point of a date is to get to know the girl better. Try something different than another movie though. Variety is good when it comes to dating.
tikigods Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 What type of area are you in? I would suggest doing something outdoors so that you two can really do something fun together, are tehre any nice zoos or hiking trails in your area? (I ask where you are cause you could also go to a lake or a beach and do a picnic) Otherwise something a little more personal
Author PKman Posted April 22, 2006 Author Posted April 22, 2006 Ok... did a bit of research.. found a place.. bout 40 min drive from her place... a nice putt putt joint.. and theres a few good places to eat dinner after it.. is that sufficient? lol and again i pose the question.. i guess to the ladies.. if i dont make a move on this second date.. will she think im not interested.. or should i make sure i make a move?
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