totallycrushed Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 I just wish he would confess instead of denying that he has been doing something that a married man should not do. He said - no lines have been crossed. Whatever that means. I am sick - so sick I havent eaten in two days. I always thought of all things I could trust him - he was always so honest with me.
Jessie61 Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 I just wish he would confess instead of denying that he has been doing something that a married man should not do. He said - no lines have been crossed. Whatever that means. I am sick - so sick I havent eaten in two days. I always thought of all things I could trust him - he was always so honest with me. Totallycrushed, See my post to you in the other thread. You can't make anyone confess if he or she doesn't want to without evidence or under duress.
amber26 Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Find the evidence what ever it may be. Act like u have found nothing. Put a keylogger on your computer. Do what ever you have to just don't let him get suspisious of u. Once you have it in black and white he can not deny it any longer.
Walking away Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Check cell phone records and credit card bills. As an xOW, I know that these things would have given my xMM's wife ALOT of information. Also, I agree with the keylogger on the computer. So sorry for your pain. It is excruciating. Hugs WA
zarathustra Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 Find the evidence what ever it may be. Act like u have found nothing. Put a keylogger on your computer. Do what ever you have to just don't let him get suspisious of u. Once you have it in black and white he can not deny it any longer. TC, listen to Amber... she's one smart cookie! I just read her other post! WOW!!! She's SCARY smart!
catgirl1927 Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 I don't think it's necessary to make them confess. You know what you know. When you know he's cheating, get out. Nothing is really gained by making him confess, other than prolonging your own pain. He won't mind doing that, and will keep it up until the cows come home if you'll tolerate it.
blind_otter Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 I don't think it's necessary to make them confess. You know what you know. When you know he's cheating, get out. Nothing is really gained by making him confess, other than prolonging your own pain. He won't mind doing that, and will keep it up until the cows come home if you'll tolerate it. I totally agree. I fail to understand why people need evidence. If you feel this bad, then something is wrong. Terribly wrong. You need to take care of yourself. And being with him right now isn't making you feel good. And I am stalking you catgirl.
catgirl1927 Posted April 25, 2006 Posted April 25, 2006 I totally agree. I fail to understand why people need evidence. If you feel this bad, then something is wrong. Terribly wrong. You need to take care of yourself. And being with him right now isn't making you feel good. And I am stalking you catgirl. It is undoubtedly due to the extreme hotness of my avatar.
Guest Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 I made my ex husband confess to his cheating.I left my husband in 2003, because he was being very abusive.When i was married to him, he would accuse me of cheating and would take off drunk .He would never come home until morning.Then he would go straight to restroom ,and lock the door.I would have a lot of fights with him.If I would bring the subject of cheating, he would turn it around I said I was cheating.I am going to confess I did cheated on him once, but it was with someone he did not know.I cheated on him because I had a feeling that he was cheating on me, but did not know with who.I left him for two years.Now he is back in my life, and he wants to make up for the time he cheated.He wants to start all over.I made him confess.I told him if you really want to be with me I need you to tell me the true.But the true would be by taking a lie detector test.He didnt want to take one, so he confess.He said that he cheated on me with a lot of women and two of my closes friends.That really hurt.After two years I still feel sad , empty and mad at him.I feel more mad that he cheated on me with two of my supposely friends.He said that he did not want to cheat with my friends, but it happened.He says to trust him again.Its hard because he would not leave me a lone.I dont know if I still love him or not.I still carried that pain inside, but when I am around him I hide it.I feel bad because he does feel that he is sorry, but I just cannot let go.
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