LovingSoul535 Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 First I want to start off by saying it's usually the dad that worries about his dad getting hurt in the beginning of a relationship. My story tends to be different....its his dad worrying about him and the LDR. I live in Michigan while my boyfriend/ex on the cusp lives in North Carolina(630 miles) Anyways, just recently Tyler txt me saying he had to end things because his dad found out, and if he does't end it, his dad will and and he doesn't want to put me through any of that. Protecting me I know, but I dont want to be protected. Please help me in making him understand that I am not giving up, that I meant what I said about never giving up on him. He is the first to truly treat me the way I'm suppose to be treated. His dad is controlling and over protective. He doesn't want us dating because I live in another state...claims Tyler should have a relationship down there. Honestly, why? He can concentrate on having his grades up and afterschool activities, and time with friends, while me and him making each other happy. I wrote Tyler a long long long letter to let his dad read to tell his dad the type of person I am to make him see that Tyler will not be hurt by me, and that he has done a fine job raising such a fine young man. I just can't lose him. Any advice would help so much. Sorry to start with an unhappy beginning here, but I need help. Thanks so much, help me hang on to this one.
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