jhurtinct Posted April 22, 2006 Posted April 22, 2006 I went back to my SO home (the house we moved into together), we have a 4yr old son who moved out with my. After a month we started dating again after about 4-5 months my son and I moved back, we went to couseling things were good. Now after not even 4 months of being home, he tells me things aren't working out and never will he is done trying. He blamed me saying the 2 thngs he has asked of me for approx. 5 yrs now were to dress sexy for him once in a while and to start sex once in awhile. I am not very secure with myself ( he doesn't help ). For some reason when we are not together I do my self up and lose weight very fast ( due to not eating due to beign sick and devesated ) and we end up back together then I for some reason return to the slump, sweats and pjs all the time and I put that weight right back on so there goes the sex life. I know there is something wrong with me and that is my fault I just don't know why. Any suggestions? So after he told me he's done trying he said you can stay hear as long as you want I'll move into the other bedroom (which he hasn't). I am totally heart broken, I want it to work he is my life, I can't go back and forth with my son again and if we do leave the only place I have to go is back with my mom and brother. I have 1 big dog, 2 cats, 2 birds and very little income. It would absolutely tear my mothers life up they already have a big dog, It would tear my son apart completely. So many peoples lives will be wrecked. All because I wanted to try again. I need to know how to live with him and not be with him and what can I do I am really torn up right now never so unsure of what to do. Thank you in advance for your help, it is sooo much needed.
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