Guest Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 I know this is going to sound weird or even stupid, but here it goes. I have noticed over the past few months I have been talking with my counselor, that he stares at my, well, inbetween my legs. No not all the time, but sometimes. No I'm not wearing short skirts or anything revealing or sexy so to speak. I can have on jeans, and stand up to get ready to leave and bam, I catch his eyes fixed on my crotch. I can be sitting there talking to him about whatever is going on, and bam he is gawking at my crotch! The thing is, hes obvioulsy listening to me, because he has really good advice. He seems to be a very understanding, caring person offering good advice or suggestions for my situation. I don't get why he does that. Maybe its just normal? What is he thinking to do this? Male instinct? Link to post Share on other sites
typical Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Maybe he is aware that he is doing this, and chances are it has run across his mind, the following phrase: "okay, dont look!...s***, you looked! WHY did you look? Now she is going to think you WANT to look at her crotch! Dammit! You looked again! What is wrong with you?!" Because I have done that before....on accident..which always leads me to keep looking even when I specifically told my brain not to! Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 He may not be aware he even does it. It might just be his focus point:p , as far as thinking about or listening to what it is you are saying. Maybe he is in deep thought about your questions? Jade Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Uh... well... perhaps... hmmm... maybe because he wants you sexually? Those things DO happen you know... Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Uh... well... perhaps... hmmm... maybe because he wants you sexually? Those things DO happen you know... I agree with this. SOME men, do look at certain parts of a womans body when its what they are thinking about. Its one thing to glance at someone but to stare like you said he does, probably means hes in deep thought about what you look like naked. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Ever watched that movie "What Women Want".. They show a perfect seen for that. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 I agree with this. SOME men, do look at certain parts of a womans body when its what they are thinking about. Its one thing to glance at someone but to stare like you said he does, probably means hes in deep thought about what you look like naked. It makes perfect sense as far as I see. You see a woman that turns you on sexually you're gonna look at her even more and you're gonna focus on those *parts* that get your dick hard. A good round ass that has a little *jiggle* to it when she walks is always yummy. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Ever watched that movie "What Women Want".. They show a perfect seen for that. :lmao: I must have missed that movie, what do they do? Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 I must have missed that movie, what do they do? The whole movie was about Mel Gibson getting to hear all of womans thoughts. So, he was insided one of his coworkers offices,since he can read her mind, so was starring at his crotch and he could could hear her mind saying (Opps I just looked at his crotch, dammit I just did it agian..) Then Mel Gibson starts moving his pelvis around and she just turns away... It's funny you have to watch it someday. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 The whole movie was about Mel Gibson getting to hear all of womans thoughts. So, he was insided one of his coworkers offices,since he can read her mind, so was starring at his crotch and he could could hear her mind saying (Opps I just looked at his crotch, dammit I just did it agian..) Then Mel Gibson starts moving his pelvis around and she just turns away... It's funny you have to watch it someday. Ahhh I see. Now that would be great if we could read peoples minds, I guess. Hmm? Maybe not. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Ahhh I see. Now that would be great if we could read peoples minds, I guess. Hmm? Maybe not. You just would have had to see it... In some cases I would love to be able to read people's minds but in other case's I would honestly not want to know what the hell they are thinking... EVER! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Uh... well... perhaps... hmmm... maybe because he wants you sexually? Those things DO happen you know... I would hope not, he is married LOL. Guess that doesn't stop people from looking or wondering though. I sometimes think hes not aware of it but then again I wonder if he is, he will catch me looking at him looking at me like that, and acts kind of like in shock that I saw him. I would think thats pretty unethical for a counselor to do especailly if its purposly. I would think if his marriage is great as he makes out to be when using his family as examples, he wouldn't be doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
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