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Mom starting argument over nothing, why!?


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so anyway i return from class its late at night. Apparently there's something wrong with the heat in her room, for 70 degrees the heat pipes are still going. but it's not that bad...and the fact that she refuses to open the windows adds to the fact she complains its hot. my dad has no problem sleeping in the room. i tell her to come sleep in the extra bed in my room (where there's AC), she still refuses.

 

She tells me to call the emergency management office hotline to tell them to fix the problem or at least shut off the heat (she doesnt know english). I know there's no point calling because they only come for emergencies only...if i do call, still the main management office cant do anthing until the next day, even she knows this. and i tell her ill just call tomorrow if the heat is still crazy.

 

She refuses...asks a few times and i refuse, logically i know there's no point cause it wont be fixed until the next day. so she gets all mad and calls my bro to help call the office for her.

Then afterwards she's b*tching at how i wont help her and i dont care about her. The facts are all laid out and she knows theres no point calling tonight....yet she keeps trying to test me and starts arguments for no reason.

 

i was wrong for not taking a few minutes out of my time helping her. i guess the problem is she wants it her way no matter what...even if it may be illogical. This isn't the first time it's happened. she gets angry at me for a few hours and usually cools off by next day.

 

i'd do anything for her...but gimme a break sometime...her requests make no sense to me. maybe she wants to feel loved/appreciated...but i dont think it's my job, it should be my dad's job...he's horrible at it.

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