NightsInWhiteSatin Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I wish my ex would randomly discover this form, join and vent all his thoughts and emotions on here. I wish for a day i could read minds and i'd spend it sifting through the endless maze in his.
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 No I don't wish my ex would find this forum.. I would leave
blind_otter Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 No I don't wish my ex would find this forum.. I would leave Word........
TravelLight Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 If my ex posted on this forum I would lap up all the hellish thoughts of guilt she was feeling. And then then I would post some mock psychology, just to twist the knife
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 If my ex posted on this forum I would lap up all the hellish thoughts of guilt she was feeling. And then then I would post some mock psychology, just to twist the knife So you would rather use LS to hurt your ex than to use it to heal yourself?
Lishy Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 It would be cool to see in the mind of a person who had hurt you and find the reasons! I think if you saw that you could heal easier - I think its the doubts, insecurity and unsureness that makes the heartbreak worse! Plus alot of people say what they think you want to hear when you break up so you end up double guessing! So yes I would like to hear what was on his mind! But I wouldnt reply to him!
TravelLight Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 No. Absolutely not. No one should. There are people who really help you on LS. My ex. slammed the door walked away and left me in a pile of trouble after 4 years. This was a reflection on a phase I'm having. I've had no opportunity to speak to her, but I still do love her. Just some devislih thought amongst the anger, pain and self harm
blind_otter Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 No. Absolutely not. No one should. There are people who really help you on LS. My ex. slammed the door walked away and left me in a pile of trouble after 4 years. This was a reflection on a phase I'm having. I've had no opportunity to speak to her, but I still do love her. Just some devislih thought amongst the anger, pain and self harm People who help you on LS? And then of course there are the people who don't. This place is like any other, an area of people to congregate and communicate. I would leave if my ex were on here, but that doesn't mean other people shouldn;t want that.
shelters Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 No I don't wish my ex would find this forum.. I would leave Cheers to that.
TravelLight Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Merely in response to AC, I would rather heal myself than drag my ex over the coals (I wish I really meant that!). That's self infliction, I know a lot about that. I would like her to sit in front of me (cyber space or otherwise) and have the guts it turns out she never had, to pay me some kind words and let me find my peace in life. She will not face me at all. And there are some people on LS who have bought me back from a brink or to. I am grateful.
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 She will not face me at all. I feel for you.. I have been in your shoes recently as well.. Cheers
2sunny Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Absolutely not! I know him inside and out. No need to have him here. He's a selfish a$$.
sick of it Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 i used to wonder if she found this place. if maybe my ex was answering my questions. i used to always wonder what that would be like...like some "youve got mail" moment. or finally hear her side....what actually went through her head. it wouldve hurt...but maybe there wouldve been some finality.
jonesgirly Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 From what I've experienced, the "guilty" one usually posts on sites in order to spin a twist on their story or situation to gain some sort of justification. Its just amazing to see the lack of details and/or important events that are left out!
serial muse Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I wish my ex would randomly discover this forum No, you don't. Trust me.
zarathustra Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I wish my ex would randomly discover this form, join and vent all his thoughts and emotions on here. I wish for a day i could read minds and i'd spend it sifting through the endless maze in his. No. I don't care to know what's in his head at all.
KittenMoon Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I REALLY don't- because my handle is a pet name* of his for me... it would be obvious who I was in a millisecond. *yes I realize the irony.....
zarathustra Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I also don't want him to know what's in my head and heart so if he were to find this site, I too would leave.
CaliGuy Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 It would be cool to see in the mind of a person who had hurt you and find the reasons! Depends on the reasons. Kind of hard to justify falling out of love with someone. I've done it myself and can't really explain it fully. I think if you saw that you could heal easier - I think its the doubts, insecurity and unsureness that makes the heartbreak worse! I have all the answers I need. Nothing she could say would change that. Plus alot of people say what they think you want to hear when you break up so you end up double guessing! The fact they can walk away from us says all we need to know. They don't really love us. I see what you're saying but what more closure could you get? I fell out of love with you because you (insert reason here). All that would do is make us want to change something about us that may not even be broken So yes I would like to hear what was on his mind! But I wouldnt reply to him! I'm with Art. If she ever post here I am soooo gone.
johan Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 If my ex posted on here, she would only present her side of the story and make me out to be a heartless ass. Everyone who responded to her would support her, because that's how LS works. And they'd swear they'd love to stomp my nuts. So I don't think I would like to see her post here.
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I REALLY don't- because my handle is a pet name* of his for me... it would be obvious who I was in a millisecond. *yes I realize the irony..... you do realize he can google your handle and wind up right here on LS ? Google spiders all the posts on LS
KittenMoon Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 you do realize he can google your handle and wind up right here on LS ? Google spiders all the posts on LS Good! I've never said anything especially mean about him, and if he read through the things I've said about him, he might just get a damn clue!!!
zarathustra Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 It would be cool to see in the mind of a person who had hurt you and find the reasons! He's told me the reason why... admitted he's a selfish a**h***. I think if you saw that you could heal easier - I think its the doubts, insecurity and unsureness that makes the heartbreak worse! Plus alot of people say what they think you want to hear when you break up so you end up double guessing! Eventually, everything he said sounded more like 'I'm blah blah blah blah blah blah blah" whole bunch of words that meant very little because it was full of CRAP! Nope, didn't help me heal, just caused me more and more pain. The only thing that helped me heal was by losing faith in him and taking off the rose coloured glasses and seeing him for who he is.
serial muse Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 you do realize he can google your handle and wind up right here on LS ? Google spiders all the posts on LS Exactly, and it's a royal pain in the a$$.
My_Other_I Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I think if both parties knew about each other posting, it would escalate into a stupid mind game. It's happened on here before.
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