johan Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Otter, you'll do better than him someday. I know it's too much to ask for you to let it go right now, but I'm sure that this will turn out to be a small thing. Just keep your faith in yourself and in men. There are good ones. From what I've gathered, you were not giving yourself much of a chance to meet any quality guys. But you will sooner or later.
KittenMoon Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 BO- I don't even know what to say reading all of this. I have every urge to find this guy and stomp on his nuts (if they're big enough for me to hit them!) What he said is so viciously f*cked up!!!!! >hisss<
Author blind_otter Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 I like your quote, KM. I'm ok. I'm watching a movie and I bad mouthed my ex to a friend of mine (not a friend of ours). She broke up recently and waxed philosophical about the nature of insecurity and men. And MySpace, goddamnit. I can't get away from that place. I wrote this whole long paragraph about my dogs. I am becoming crazy dog lady, like crazy cat lady, but with fewer, larger animals.
zarathustra Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 B_O, I'm sorry to hear he's so emotionally abusive! He's really got issues. You deserve much much more than this!
CaliGuy Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 B_O, if I was in your shoes I would pack his things, toss them on the lawn, change the locks, change my number and forget I know him. He IS a horses arse.
RecordProducer Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 B_O, next time when he tells you he was with you just for sex, tell him: "Thanks for the compliment about my sexual skills; unfortunately I can't say the sex was the thing that really held me with you! " (cuz it wasn't that good)
johan Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 He IS a horses arse. He's a Harse!! I know it was lame. I was compelled.
Author blind_otter Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 B_O, I'm sorry to hear he's so emotionally abusive! He's really got issues. You deserve much much more than this! Yeah he does. Dude, he calls me a few times and I was like, get it together. You're son, who you tried to use to lure me over to your house, is staying with you. He does not need to see you freaking out. I can't stop caring about that, but I wish I could. I just want to be angry. I think it would be easier. I feel like a wet noodle.
Author blind_otter Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 harse. I like it. the compulsion came from the zeigeist (sp?) that moved me to appreciate the lame yet amusing quality of the word. I need to go to sleep. I am sunsick from getting sunburned yesterday fishing for bottom feeders. Not that I wanted to. They were the only things biting besides horseflies. God that is like my life. Fishing for bottom feeders.
whichwayisup Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Just a different angle here......... Is it possible that he can't deal with what's going on in your life? With your Dad? So he's pulling the old "I'll be an a**h*** and piss her off until she gets mad enough, then break up with her yet mess with her mind abit so she won't ask me back" kind of thing????? I could be off the mark here. Big time. I don't know. My mind is really f***ed up tonight so I'm not able to give out proper advice..lol. Don't feel like a wet noodle. You're not that at all. He's being a s*** and you don't deserve it.
serial muse Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 God that is like my life. Fishing for bottom feeders. Maybe try fishing in a different part of the lake... I cannot believe how unbelievably dickish this guy has been to you, especially when you've got so much to deal with in your family. I would like to connect my foot with his ass.
Author blind_otter Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 Just a different angle here......... Is it possible that he can't deal with what's going on in your life? With your Dad? So he's pulling the old "I'll be an a**h*** and piss her off until she gets mad enough, then break up with her yet mess with her mind abit so she won't ask me back" kind of thing????? I could be off the mark here. Big time. I don't know. My mind is really f***ed up tonight so I'm not able to give out proper advice..lol. Don't feel like a wet noodle. You're not that at all. He's being a s*** and you don't deserve it. The thought has crossed my mind. I don't think he can deal with it. It's pretty evident, already. And this is an opportunity to back out. Graclessly. I'm hallucinating. I need to eat.
zarathustra Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Yeah he does. Dude, he calls me a few times and I was like, get it together. You're son, who you tried to use to lure me over to your house, is staying with you. He does not need to see you freaking out. I can't stop caring about that, but I wish I could. I just want to be angry. I think it would be easier. I feel like a wet noodle. He made his choice to treat you badly. You need not feel guilty for the consequence of his choices. When he chose to leave, he absolved you of responsibility over his son. It sucks that if his son likes you that he will lose you in the process, but he can blame his loser father for that one. I had an ex-fiance who used to always break up with me when I needed him most. He's commitment phobic. I'm glad I'm rid of the loser. It may not seem so now, but you are truly, TRULY blessed to be rid of this guy. Hallelujah!
My_Other_I Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Eek, what an ass! Well, we are the seekers of truth, so maybe knowing how he sees you will make it easier. Just don't spread it out for him. Yep, he's a pig.
RecordProducer Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 I feel like a wet noodle.Maybe you're wet, but are you thin and long like a noodle?
Adunaphel Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 BO, you are too smart, funny and intelligent to be with a loser who should have grown up those 20 years ago. I'm sorry he said those mean things. Perhaps he cannot afford a flashy car so he tries to compensate for his weenie with a *very*wicked tongue. What a jerk.
ReluctantRomeo Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 This time he said that he lied when he got back together with me the last time, that he was just using me for sex. Whether true or not, this is an awful thing to say. He's an a**h***
Lishy Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 BO you need his crap right now, with your family issues, like you need a hole in the head! He is a jerk! I have to say that I understand completely the feeling that you are only good for sex! I feel the self same way - Then when I meet a new guy the first thing he says is "you are such a good kisser, I bet you are good in bed" and that just re-enforces that all I am good for is sex! I know in my own head that I am good for much more than sex but I still have these feelings! Unless we deal with these problems we will just continue to let guys walk all over us and all we will meet are jerks who convince us we were right! kick him to the kerb baby!
alphamale Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 B_O, if I was in your shoes I would pack his things, toss them on the lawn, change the locks, change my number and forget I know him.. yeah, Ha hA ha.....except you'd still stay in contact with his mom.
Lishy Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 yeah, Ha hA ha.....except you'd still stay in contact with his mom. Go do some work Alphie!
Mz. Pixie Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Oh B-O- he's such an ass............. You're too good for him.
a4a Posted April 21, 2006 Posted April 21, 2006 Oh B-O- he's such an ass............. You're too good for him. <--- This is an ass. Which has a much larger penis than BOs dumbass. Most likely would prove to have more cognitive skills the BOs dumbass if put head to head with her bi-ped micro penis carbon based dumbass.
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