batesal Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 On a positive not I now have no way of phoning/texting her as I tidied up my gaff and found every phone bill with her number. Burned the lot of them! I still know her normal address and email address off by heart but I have no intention in using them. Haven't done a hand-written letter in years! (maybe that's where I went wrong - kidding!) I am gald that you have done this.. It may not be a huge step for you, but it is a big step. Having the urge to talk to someone bothers you alot, Not only does it bother your emotions, it bothers your self-esteem. You will think about her alot, becuase you are not talking to her. Remeber that can be normal, as long as you don't let it run your life. I go through stages at being very angry. Mostly because she dumped me by telephone. I would never dream of breaking it off with someone in anything other than in person. Am I wrong to be angry for this reason? What does everyone think about breaking up over the phone? You are going to go through the stages of having your heartbroken. Honestly it has nothing to do with being broken up over the phone. It basically shows that she cannot face facts with hurting someone she once loved. No I don't think you are wrong to be upset about that. Having your heart broken by someone hurts. You have to stop talking to her, and let her do whatever she wants. She WILL get hers...
Numbheart Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 I go through stages at being very angry. Mostly because she dumped me by telephone. I would never dream of breaking it off with someone in anything other than in person. Am I wrong to be angry for this reason? What does everyone think about breaking up over the phone? I feel your pain, I had it done to me by text! Personally, I think your justified in your feelings, and after all, we are all human and it is a basic human instinct. If someone has meant anything to me, I would always try to do it face to face, to me it is just basic comon curtesy and respect, however, sometimes this is not possible and a phone call has to be the second choice (e.g. if you have plans for the evening and they are at work the moment you feel you have to end it!) I do also agree with Batesal with she cannot face facts with hurting someone she once loved. I know there is no way on earth my ex could have done it face to face with me, as we were both weak at the knees around each other, so she would have ended up staying with me and then broken up via text again....I asked her to meet in person and she told me exactly that, which I knew was true......so try not to hold it against your ex, there could be many reasons that you have not been told for why she did it like this.
scobro Posted May 4, 2006 Posted May 4, 2006 I just got dumped after 4 months and yes it hurts like hell and sucks but i have been dumped a few times before and it always gets better as time goes by. no contact is king!!!!
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