sunflowergrl Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 OK I am 27 divorced and have 3 daughters all by the same daddy. He was a jerk and wasnt the most pleasant person. But I have recently gotton on my feet and started working after 6 years. There is a guy at work who i have been noticing and he has been noticing me too. I just dont know how to approach him i havent been with anyone else in 11 years. This guy is sweet and funny and shy like myself. I am just looking for some insight if i should make small talk or if i should just leave it alone. I am 27 with 3 kids and i am affraid that would scare him off beings he is 33 and has none.
luvtoto Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 OK I am 27 divorced and have 3 daughters all by the same daddy. He was a jerk and wasnt the most pleasant person. But I have recently gotton on my feet and started working after 6 years. There is a guy at work who i have been noticing and he has been noticing me too. I just dont know how to approach him i havent been with anyone else in 11 years. This guy is sweet and funny and shy like myself. I am just looking for some insight if i should make small talk or if i should just leave it alone. I am 27 with 3 kids and i am affraid that would scare him off beings he is 33 and has none. Iowa? Cool. I am from Nebraska, myself. Anyways... The only way you will know is to put yourself out there. Just because you have three daughters already, does not mean that this man will run from you. Have you had other experiences where men have been turned off by you having kids?
MadDog Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 It's worth a shot. If he does run, then you know it won't work out.
jhurtinct Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 I say go for it slowly and carefully work is a touchy place to mess with emotion, it could very well cost someones job. I would love to know how you got on your feet again and I give you much respect for doing so, I am currently suck where I don't want to be because of a 4 yr and finances because I stayed home with him. Good luck with the co worker
Author sunflowergrl Posted April 21, 2006 Author Posted April 21, 2006 Well I just had to get on my feet and do it for my kids that is the most important thing. they are my whole world and nothing else matters. can't say it was easy but i have loving family and loving friends who have been my savior. if it wasnt for the 3 angels i wake up tp every morning i dont know what i would do. the guy at work though he is just as shy as i am and i wouldnt want to rush into anything to fast. i was with my ex husband 11 years and married for 7. when he joined the navy he changed so much and i learned what it was like to be a navy wife and i can honestly say when they the hardest job in the navy is being a navy wife that is so true the first year he was in he was gone for 10 months out of the 1st year. but i was young and i learned how to survive on my own all that time alone so i think i had a jump start and getting back on my feet when it was truly over. and thank goodness i am home. Nebraska rocks!!!! i live in council bluffs iowa and work in omaha nebraska. thanks for all the advice.
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