Big_A Posted April 19, 2006 Posted April 19, 2006 So I guess that they have heard through the grapevine that I got dumped recently. Two of my ex's going back 5-6 years have called me in the last two days. I talked with one briefly, but haven’t spoken with the other. I think we’re far enough apart that there aren’t any romantic feelings anymore and I do feel comfortable talking to them but I could see how it might turn weird. Do you think it would be healthy to talk to them?
chocolate_boy Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 Sure, I did the same, last sept when I got dumped, ended up getting back in touch with my ex-fiance from years ago (who got dumped on the same day!, she's back with him 7 months later however), but yeah we became really good friends again over last 6 months or so, after a while, particularly if you've been out with other people, you can find ex's can be sweet friends (and know you like no one else!). I'm also best friends with a girl I dated for 6 months in 2003, she is now engaged to a guy, and we're really close and have been for last 3 years, she's like my little sister now. It can work.
Guest Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 What's the point of doing that? Seems useless to me. Best case you have another "pal" ....
jerbear Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 I think it could be fine. I had one call me after I broke up, different call similar background and situation. Used me and I said no meeting or helping her but would talk to her. An psuedo ex, I slept over but never really dated if you say hanging out with older and younger sister dating... Even today we hang out, it was as if we had a history. Her friends, sister, sister's friends all look at us as if we were a couple. Distance & time helps to keep the feelings down.
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