Timtim Posted April 19, 2006 Posted April 19, 2006 I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts on my situation? I've fallen hard for a girl at work. We've become really close friends over the past couple of months, and my feelings for her are so strong that I finished with my girlfriend although this girl doesn't know how I feel. Since I finished that relationship, she has told me that she is a lesbian (no-one else at work knows apart from me) and has a girlfriend. She has become really tactile with me and messages me at least twice a day but talks about her girlfriend quite a lot and the problems she's having with her. I asked her out for dinner and we had a good time but just as friends. I interpret her behaviour as being flirty and I know she's had flings with blokes in the past (including a guy who's my friend from work). Everyone at work thinks there's something going on between us. It's really screwing me up as I don't know how to interpret the signals. I don't know if she just thinks it's safe to flirt with me because I "know" she's a lesbian and therefore isn't leading me on, or whether she is actually attracted to me? Any opinions would be much appreciated!
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