Meaplus3 Posted April 19, 2006 Posted April 19, 2006 Feeling's can be so darn confusing. Just when I thought I could end this so called "affair". I still can't seem to do it. This MM makes me feel 18 again! I love the way I feel when I am around him. When our eyes meet it feels like the rest of the world is one hold for the moment. I know I am a MW and he a MM but what if what we both feel is something real? How can you not explore and find out before you could end your marriage if that's what the plan was?
Blind Illusion Posted April 19, 2006 Posted April 19, 2006 I just wanted to tell you that i can understand this very much.
Author Meaplus3 Posted April 19, 2006 Author Posted April 19, 2006 I just wanted to tell you that i can understand this very much. Thanks! I so appreciate understanding, for I need to understand this.
curly Posted April 19, 2006 Posted April 19, 2006 Please keep reading the posts here... there are soooo many MW that start an A w/ a MM and they leave their H, and the MM never leaves...... Its a rare situation that 2 people meet that are married, realize they both made a mistake and end up together. Mostly, women tend to have affairs at the end of the M, and are aware that the R with the H is over. Then if a MM comes into their sphere and he seems to want out (ahem,,, cough, cough,,,, excuse me.... cause they rarely leave... no matter what they say) eventually the wayward woman leaves her H, to find that the MM is not doing the same. Be cautious. Read more posts. Its a slippery slope. Hate to sound b*tchy cause I'm not - but you've been warned. I know its a cliche but it is one for a reason. MEN DON'T LEAVE THIER WIVES... EVER. The only reason they leave is because the W said "get out." My best wishes to you but keep reading..... we ALL thought our situation was different. You already know. You just don't want to admit it. But you know your gut knows. Listen to it. I do wish you the best. And if you kow you want to leave your husband, then do it. You can't do counseling if your heart's not in it. do what is right for you. Just don't invest in this MM. Statistically, he's bound to break your heart when your heart is very vulnerable. Be good to yourself.
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