lexilas Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 This past weekend was really tough for me...I was feeling blue...and kept trying to figure out why my ex stopped calling me after 1.5 years together - no explanation, no nothing. The last I'd heard from him was two months ago and then he just dropped off the face of the earth (and I let him). My Monday went much better than my Sunday and I was no longer having a pity party. While I was enjoying my evening my phone started to ring and as I glanced at the caller i.d. I realized that it was my ex calling - I WAS FLOORED!! I didn't answer but let it go to voice mail then my cell phone started ringing, I didn't answer that either. He left messages at both numbers but I only listened to one which said "Hi L this is M, I just called to see what you were doing" Unbelievable!! After two months he wants to know what I'm doing! Well needless to say I haven't called back (not sure I won't at some point but I have to think about it). His voice mail isn't telling me anything close to what I need to hear - you'd think he'd at least acknowledge that he's been missing for 2 months.
Chinook Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 It worked then..? Seriously now. You're doing good. He didn't acknowledge that he's been missing because he's been too busy having a nice old time of things. My ex did exactly the same to me. We split nearly 2 years ago and for around 18 months neither of us really moved on. We remained friendly and basically it was okay. He finds a girlfriend... all the calls stop. Texts stop. Emails stop. etc. I let them. I kinda figure that well, what the hey we have to move on and we both had pity parties long enough. Was he happy with that..? Oh no. Instead, his relationship goes tits up and suddenly he's saying to me that we could reconcile...? ASKING me. I deliberate over it... I'd hoped for it. He tells me he never said he didn't love me. He says he still loves me. All complete bollocks of course. Yesterday hard as it was to realise, he was having a laugh at my expense. Well I thought "sod you" and today he's tried to email and I didn't reply. F-ck him Don't respond. You're doing pretty good by yourself. You'll get over him in time. He doesn't want you back. He just wants to stick the needle in to see if you still hurt. He just wants to see if you still can tell him you love him. Of course you still love him.... no need for him to know that though is there...? If he wants you - he will move hell or high water to be with you. That's the way it is babe. Stay strong.
Author lexilas Posted April 18, 2006 Author Posted April 18, 2006 I agree with you Chinook, and although we never officially split I think a two month disappearance qualifies. I think he was indeed too busy having a good old time doing whatever...and now that his good old time has gone sour (for whatever reason) he's calling me to possibly feed his ego. I loved him to death but I'm not falling for it. I don't want to put myself through that again.
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