Marielle Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 After one yr of relationship, and prev. 2 yrs of friendship, he's finally moving out in July, and moving in with me. We knew it would be this year, but I thought it would be later, like december. I m glad that he's leaving he's wife (he was staying just for the baby, until he gre up a little) BUT at the same time, I m not sure I am prepared to live with him...is this normal? Maybe I m just scared all the exitement will be gone. But we love each other to death, it's not just an affair. I do not wish to discuss this with him, because I do not want him to back off...I just wanted to share this with you guys... Anyone been through this? Any thoughts
Guest Posted April 20, 2006 Posted April 20, 2006 If you don't feel ready to live together, discuss him finding his own place for a year or so. Let him know you love him but you aren't prepared to move so quickly. I honestly think it would be better all around if he has some of his own 'space' once he's seperated from his wife.
Author Marielle Posted April 22, 2006 Author Posted April 22, 2006 I thought of that, but I m not sure how to bring it up. because he won t even bring the subject up, and I do not want him to feel pressured by me reiterating the same subject. I though to just let things happen...But I have a strange feeling about all this...
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