moving in with my boyfriend in a new place far away from family and friends

[Guest]

I guess i have about 3 weeks left and i'm just freaking out. I'm excited sometimes and then i start thinking of things i will miss and scared of losing myself my identiy to this man that i do love but we have been long distance for pretty much our whole relationship. ANd everyone saids hey if it doesn't work you can always come home but that really isn't comforting. I guess I just feel alone and i don't want to tell him because i think he's worried that i'm going to wake up one day and not want to do this anymore. But i know i have to do this to take the next step if i think that this relationship will work. I just am terrified of failure and deep intimate closeness like I have never had falling apart. Plus I'm moving with nothing but cloths and maybe 500 in my wallet. I just need some advice!

[dgiirl]

Been there, done that, (i wont tell you what's happening now 8 years later lol)

 

The best advice i can offer you is make friends outside of your bf. Get your own life independent of your bf. Dont put all your eggs in one basket. If possible, I'd even recommend you moving into your OWN place in this new city of yours.