littlepiggy1 Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 Just talked with my ex again tonight. We still have some of each others things so I wanted to swap them (would have done it sooner, but she was away on a trip). Anyway, we're chatting and she suddenly asks me if I've met anyone yet. I replied "no" (which is the truth), but then she giggles about it and asks "really?". Again, I said "no", although I didn't tell her that I had been planning to meet someone else. Then, stupidly (and almost automatically) I responed "how about you?". She responds with this meek, "umm... yeah". I knew I shouldn't have asked, but it was automatic. I paused for a sec, then replied "That's good. And that's all I'm going to ask." It was weird, but it did bug me a little bit. I know I can't chastise her for it because I was thinking about going out and doing some dating myself. But at the same time, it reopened some memories of me and her... *sigh* I have a feeling that after we swap stuff, I may just go NC with her. It would be so much easier that way...
tanbark813 Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 There's a good chance she was lying about having met someone. Also, she wouldn't have asked you if it wouldn't have bugged her to know you were seeing anyone either. I'm not saying to stay in contact with her or keep thinking about her, but don't beat yourself up over it all.
Author littlepiggy1 Posted April 18, 2006 Author Posted April 18, 2006 Well, she's never been one to play games so I can't fathom why she would lie about it. When she asked me about it, I thought maybe she had seen my online dating profile back up (which I just put up a few days ago). Especially since she acted pretty surprised when I said I hadn't. Eh, I'll get over it...
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