Bballswingr Posted April 17, 2006 Posted April 17, 2006 Suppose i asked a girl to the prom and she said she already had a date. Would it be wrong to them ask her out for a date on just a regular night? I mean i havent done either yet and im not sure which to do first, but if she has a date for the prom should i just ask her out for anytime? Thanks in advance for the help
BlankBlank Posted April 17, 2006 Posted April 17, 2006 It really depends on if she is just going with someone, or if the person is her boyfriend...See how serious that relationship is. Find that out, or ask her and see what she says.
aleatoryd Posted April 17, 2006 Posted April 17, 2006 Sure why not. If you don't you'll never get with her anyway. The outcomes are yes or no simple as that. If it's no you accept it and move on. If it turns nasty then you know it wouldn't have worked out. On the other hand she might respect your determination to go on a date. THe worstcase is that she likes her prom date and want's to be exclusively with him. You are young and don't have much to lose. I myself while offering you this advice am learning that I need to build up my confidence - rejection, getting dumped etc well they have served as good lessons and when I end up with someone I love I will appreciate her even more. Whatever you decide I hope it goes well.
whichwayisup Posted April 17, 2006 Posted April 17, 2006 Suppose i asked a girl to the prom and she said she already had a date. Would it be wrong to them ask her out for a date on just a regular night? I mean i havent done either yet and im not sure which to do first, but if she has a date for the prom should i just ask her out for anytime? Thanks in advance for the help Find out how serious this "date" to the prom is. If it is just a casual thing, then yes, definately ask her out for another night. But, if this guy is her boyfriend or someone she is interested in getting to know - Your chances are pretty slim to none... Either way, wouldn't hurt to ask her out.
Guest Posted April 17, 2006 Posted April 17, 2006 just to clear up, i dont know if she has a date to the prom even, and im sure she doesnt have a boyfriend. Also, should i ask for the prom first or the date?
Author Bballswingr Posted April 17, 2006 Author Posted April 17, 2006 sry if this is a double post i forgot to log in anyway just to clear up i dont know if she has a date to the prom and im sure she doesnt have a boyfriend. Also, should i ask for the prom first or a date?
aleatoryd Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 I don't know. Is it normal to ask a girl to a prom without having dated her before? I'm asking this because over here we don't tend to have much like a prom. Our equivalent was a big drunken party where things got smashed! I'm guessing every girl remembers their prom date so you just have to give it a shot - remember if she is single and turned you down however (without having a prom date) then it's not a wise idea to ask about the prom. Then again some girls like perseverance!
Guest Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 I dont know either haha but the only way to find out is to try! haha and ya we have a "big drunken party where things get smashed" too, the afterparty, haha. Whatever i guess im just going to try tomorrow because im sick today.
Author Bballswingr Posted April 18, 2006 Author Posted April 18, 2006 dang i always forget to log in, o well post will be up soon
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