Guest Posted April 17, 2006 Posted April 17, 2006 About a month ago my boyfriend of 6 years told me he'n not in love with me anymore. He says that he loves me as a person and that he still thinks I'm attractive, but 'it's' just not there anymore. This was the guy that I thought I was going to marry and have children with (I'm 24 andhe's 28) and I really believed with everything that this is where we were heading next. We both talked about marriage and it seemed like he really wanted it too. I know that there is no one else in his life, but it just seems like it all ended so abrutly. We only talk when we have to, we are in the transition of selling a place so complete no contact is out of the question. But he will contact me just to say hi and see what I am doing. Some days he talls me that he thinks we will get back together and other days he says that we won't. He has told me a couple of times that sometimes two people need to be apart to realize that there is noone else in the world for him. He is a really great guy, and I honestly don't believe that he is playing games. I know there is no time frame for getting over someone but as hard as I try I can not stop my heart and head from saying that things will work out. I am just hoping for some advice from others who have gone through this and I am wondering how long it takes, when can you finally start letting go? I just want to move on with my life!
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