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We have been dating for three years and living together for about two. Last year she took a job that travel a lot and... ...met someone else. Last week we had the split, although it was coming for a couple months. I am not into contacting her but I know that we have to deal with our mutual possessions in the apartment we shared.

 

So the question is how? Do I wait for her to say “I’m coming for my stuff?” Do I call her and say “You have one week.” Should I just put her stuff in the garage? Should I be around when she comes for her belongings? There are a few items that we may argue over who really should get them.

 

Since she is traveling most of the time I have no idea when she is going to have time to deal with it. How do I do this without being a tool and without resorting to passive aggressive behaviors to try and “punish” her?

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