Guest Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Hi. Well to start off. I have known her for 5 years of my life. and i swear to god once i seen her i feel in love w/ her. We dated on and off. We had some spats here and there. Though it was in h.s it was to expected. We dated for a long time after we had those on and off periods. for like 2 years. than came a big big fight. We broke up w/ eachother * my mistake * So last year she started dating this other guy. Ok i can deal with that. Well not that long into it. He told me that he would kill himself if she ever broke up w/ him =/.. So i was like wtf. ok... So she told me like 2 days later she hadnt heard about the fact that he had said that. She told me she was in love w/ me still =(.. i was like great.. break up w/ him n than we can be together. lets make both of us happy. well later that night she called me and told me that he said if she broke up w/ him he'd kill me. than himself. =/... So she wouldnt break up w/ him. I was always over at her apt. Always than he moved in. Kinda forced himself in. didnt pay rent for like 4-5 months. and he was controling her really bad!! i found out at her grad. party. i told her you got to get away from that psycho. i hadnt seen her for awhile than i seen her. she gave me her # 3 days later it was disconnected. since than. i havent seen her. its been so long! im so worried about her. i dont know what he's been doing to her etc. I love her so much that i dont want nothing to happen to her. But i have tried sending her letters, going to her place. to get in contact w/ her but nothing from her. I cant get her out of my mind!! i dream bout her, think about her all day. I know i am in love w/ her. but if im not sure what to do anymore =/ could someone help!!?!?
littlepiggy1 Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Does she have any friends or family that would be able to contact her? It sounds like she's in an abusive, potentially life threatening relationship and she needs help. I would get in touch with her ASAP, find out what the hell has been going on and then get her in touch with a woman's crisis center and/or the police (esp. if there has been abuse/death threats).
bellaD Posted April 16, 2006 Posted April 16, 2006 You should definatly call her. I dont see any harm in calling. IF i cared about somebody as much as you care about her than i would def call. This guy is a jerkoff scumbag that she is dating and deep down shes prob not happy with him. TRy and get in touch with her just to see how things are going and take it from there. If she calims shes happy- let her be and move on, but stay friends with if you can handle it. SHe seems like she was a big part of your life. But yea, def call.
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