Woggle Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 This woman has gone too far this time. Whatever charges they can charge her with I will press them. Last night I was at home watching some dvds with my fiance and all of a sudden I hear a loud crack and the window shatters. I looks out and her car is speeding off. I called the cops and had her arrested. She is still in prison right now waiting to be charged. I am so sick of her crap and I want the cops to throw the book at her. Put her away for 25 years if you ask me. I also feel very guilty for getting my fiance involved in this. She didn't ask for it and I had no idea my ex would go this nuts. I am trying to cinvince her to just go out to San Francisco to stay with her family and I will sell the house in time for the wedding. I don't want her to be in danger.
littlepiggy1 Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Good Lord, what a psycho! You're right, she definitely needs to suffer the consequences for this!
tinktronik Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Ah , Woggle.Im so sorry.I'm glad you took action and had your ex arrested, now maybe she won't harass you anymore. I can definitly understand wanting your fiance not to have to worry. I would be so pissed at my ex.
Art_Critic Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Remember that after she is charged and arraigned that she will be able to post bail and get out.. Make sure that a no contact protective order is part of her bail. That way if she contacts you again you can have her rearrested in a few mins.
Author Woggle Posted April 15, 2006 Author Posted April 15, 2006 Remember that after she is charged and arraigned that she will be able to post bail and get out.. Make sure that a no contact protective order is part of her bail. That way if she contacts you again you can have her rearrested in a few mins. Oh best believe there will be a restraining order.
Art_Critic Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Oh best believe there will be a restraining order. Cool.. but make sure it is a part of her bail.. That way your charge and her bail are tied to a protective order.
MadDog Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 This woman has gone too far this time. Whatever charges they can charge her with I will press them. Last night I was at home watching some dvds with my fiance and all of a sudden I hear a loud crack and the window shatters. I looks out and her car is speeding off. I called the cops and had her arrested. She is still in prison right now waiting to be charged. I am so sick of her crap and I want the cops to throw the book at her. Put her away for 25 years if you ask me. I also feel very guilty for getting my fiance involved in this. She didn't ask for it and I had no idea my ex would go this nuts. I am trying to cinvince her to just go out to San Francisco to stay with her family and I will sell the house in time for the wedding. I don't want her to be in danger. Holy s***. I thought I had a psycho ex until I read this. Where the devil did you meet this "woman?"
SuperMonk Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 She could be one of those LoveShack women, you know who they are... I also know who they are. I won't name names, but I just know they come on here with a facade they are normal, they aren't. I speak the truth, I have sith ways.
tinktronik Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 She could be one of those LoveShack women, you know who they are... I also know who they are. I won't name names, but I just know they come on here with a facade they are normal, they aren't. I speak the truth, I have sith ways. you've got me and others pegged supermonk I'll remember to be wary of your sith ways :lmao: Woggle , has she made bail yet?
blind_otter Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Sith ways? I thought that was on a fictional movie series. Someone needs to get out moooooooore. Sorry about the stalker ex, Woggle. She can post bail. Get a pit bull.
Author Woggle Posted April 15, 2006 Author Posted April 15, 2006 Sith ways? I thought that was on a fictional movie series. Someone needs to get out moooooooore. Sorry about the stalker ex, Woggle. She can post bail. Get a pit bull. Better than a pitbull I keep my gun loaded just in case and if she breaks in my home I can legally claim self defense. I truly do hope it doesn't get to that but I will protect my self.
blind_otter Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Better than a pitbull I keep my gun loaded just in case and if she breaks in my home I can legally claim self defense. I truly do hope it doesn't get to that but I will protect my self. Do you still have the answering machine messages with the death threats? Use them. IME the wheels of justice turn sloooooowly. When my psycho ex broke down my door and tried to kill my friend, it was December of 2004. The trial date wasn't scheduled until August of 2005, so stay alert. I'll say a prayer for you and your fiancee.
Author Woggle Posted April 15, 2006 Author Posted April 15, 2006 Do you still have the answering machine messages with the death threats? Use them. IME the wheels of justice turn sloooooowly. When my psycho ex broke down my door and tried to kill my friend, it was December of 2004. The trial date wasn't scheduled until August of 2005, so stay alert. I'll say a prayer for you and your fiancee. I still have the messages. I feel so guilty for getting my fiance involved in all this but I honestly did not think my ex was this crazy.
blind_otter Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 I still have the messages. I feel so guilty for getting my fiance involved in all this but I honestly did not think my ex was this crazy. It's normal to feel like that, but don't let yourself go too far down that path of logic, because there was no way that you could no. How could anyone predict someone's psychotic break, especially if you haven't had regular contact with her?? Your fiancee will understand, talk to her about your guilt. It something that you should acknowledge, and then let go of. This really was out of your control.
aleatoryd Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Safety first Woggle! I agree with Art_Critic if there are ways to get restraining orders on her then make sure she can't come anywhere near you without breaking the law. Over here we have similar conditions but it pays to be careful. My sister used to live next door to a strange and abusive neighbour. One day he just kicked her door in, slashed her arm with a knife and pulled a bookcase down on her. The police over here? They didn't do much - charged him but eventually he was released because it was due to "mental health issues". Thankfully she moved but he's still living there when really he needs psychological help. I don't blame him so much as he maybe can't help it. I have far less respect for our legal system which doesn't deal properly with these things and seems to prefer that dangerous and unstable people are still out there.
Craig Posted April 16, 2006 Posted April 16, 2006 She could be one of those LoveShack women, you know who they are... I also know who they are. I won't name names, but I just know they come on here with a facade they are normal, they aren't. I speak the truth, I have sith ways. (DO, DO, DO, DO, DO, DO TWILIGHT ZONE).
Craig Posted April 16, 2006 Posted April 16, 2006 I still have the messages. I feel so guilty for getting my fiance involved in all this but I honestly did not think my ex was this crazy. Woggle, if you haven't made the police aware of the answering machine tapes and every other bit of information and evidence that you have on the ex then shame on you. Better than a pitbull I keep my gun loaded just in case and if she breaks in my home I can legally claim self defense. I truly do hope it doesn't get to that but I will protect my self. Killing someone in self defense might be fine for some people but you never know how it's going to affect you and the people (your fiancee') around you until it happens. Not to mention the fact that self defense isn't as clear as tv would make it out to be. There'll be an investigation, you may be charged and be compelled to spend vast quantities of time and money defending yourself. During that time you'll probably lose your fiancee' (or wife) because of the stress involved, you'll grow even more bitter and in the end when you win in court you'll still be in a net loss position because the money, time and people around you don't come back. Oh did I mention that after the criminal justice system has had it's way with you the civil suits can begin, not that they will but they can. If you are going to make preparations to kill your ex in what you think is self defense, at least get good counsel on what is legally permissible and what is urban myth.
lindya Posted April 16, 2006 Posted April 16, 2006 Killing someone in self defense might be fine for some people but you never know how it's going to affect you and the people (your fiancee') around you until it happens. Not to mention the fact that self defense isn't as clear as tv would make it out to be. There'll be an investigation, you may be charged and be compelled to spend vast quantities of time and money defending yourself. During that time you'll probably lose your fiancee' (or wife) because of the stress involved, you'll grow even more bitter and in the end when you win in court you'll still be in a net loss position because the money, time and people around you don't come back. Oh did I mention that after the criminal justice system has had it's way with you the civil suits can begin, not that they will but they can. If you are going to make preparations to kill your ex in what you think is self defense, at least get good counsel on what is legally permissible and what is urban myth. Couldn't have put it better.
Author Woggle Posted April 18, 2006 Author Posted April 18, 2006 Well I got the restraining order today and she can't come anywhere near me. I was still shooken up when I mentioned the part about the gun. I have yet to take a human life and I don't want to start now even if it is her. My fiance will stay to support me no matter how much I beg her to get out of the situation since this is my problem. I can't even put in words how great she is and how much I appreciate her being there for me. Somebody posted bail for her but if she even contacts me she goes back to prison until trial. In a way I am almost hoping she calls because I would feel safer behind bars. She is being charged with a bunch of stuff because the gun wasn't legal. After this is all over i am out of this town.
littlekitty Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 Jeez Woogle. Glad you're ok. It didn't click initially that when you said you heard a crack and the window went that she'd shoot at you! What a mad woman!!
Author Woggle Posted April 18, 2006 Author Posted April 18, 2006 Jeez Woogle. Glad you're ok. It didn't click initially that when you said you heard a crack and the window went that she'd shoot at you! What a mad woman!! Yeah she is nuts but I didn't think she was this nuts. I guess she can forget about alimony now. I gave all the death threats on the answering machine, emails and one written to letter the cops. They have everything plus two of my neighbors saw her car speeding off. I am pressing charges to the fullest extent of the law. I want the book thrown at her.
a4a Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 Yeah she is nuts but I didn't think she was this nuts. I guess she can forget about alimony now. I gave all the death threats on the answering machine, emails and one written to letter the cops. They have everything plus two of my neighbors saw her car speeding off. I am pressing charges to the fullest extent of the law. I want the book thrown at her. good for you Woggle! Now start planning your new happy life with your soon to be wife and put this nasty drama behind you ASAP! They do not deserve the time of day from you...... expel all dumbasses from your life - without guilt.
catgirl1927 Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 Seriously?? I didn't think people really did crap like that, I thought they only did stuff like that when the TV cameras were on. What was she going to do? And what would it accomplish? I just don't understand how people so detached from reality make it in the world. Every day is a struggle for me, and I have a pretty good head on my shoulders.
Sassy Posted April 18, 2006 Posted April 18, 2006 Wow Woggle!! What a Psycho Bit@@. Do as Art said . Make sure you are protecting you and the fiance. She sounds like a real nut case and is very pissed that you are getting remarried. I can see why you hate women with what you dealt with your ex. Was she abusive to you in your relationship ? I am glad you got rid of her .Hugs to you
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