D.J.R. Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 i Am A 39 Yr Old Female, In A Relationship With An Older Man, We Meet It Was Wonderful Getting To Know Each Other. We Fell In Love With Each Other, We Were Spending Alot Of Time With Each Other. About 3 And Half Months In The Relationship, He Starts To Distance Himself From Me, This Went On For About One Week, I Asked Him What Was Wrong, He Says He Just Wants To Be Alone Sometimes. I Can Understand That But Here It Is April And Its Still Going On. I Asked If There Was Someone Else Or Did I Do Or Say Something, He Says No, He Would Have Told Me. In The Meantime I Tell Him That Hes Making Me Feel Like He Doesnt Want To Be With Me Anymore, He Says He Sorry, And Tried To Make It Better. But One Night He Stayed Over My Place And He Acted Like He Didnt Want To Touch Me. We Had Great Sex In The Beginning So I Really Dont Understand Whats Going On With Him. Last Weekend He Invited Me Over For A Movie. We Were Sitting On The Couch, When All Of A Sudden He Moves Over To A Single Chair. Im So Confused And Hurt, I Dont Know What To Do. I Almost Want To End It With Him, Because It Hurts So Bad. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
justagirliegirl Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 I just went through something similar to that. You have already told him how you felt and what the problem was. Now it is time to take action. I would back off from him. Don't be so available. Make him go back to courting you again.
Author D.J.R. Posted April 15, 2006 Author Posted April 15, 2006 Thats Very Good Advice, Which I Was Thinking About Myself. Thanks
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