dlshaffer Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Ok so I met this guy 2 wks ago. We had an awesome time together. We had an instant connection to the point that we slept together 3 times, once in the afternoon, when he got back from work around 11pm and again at 4am (he's a cop for 2 municipalities and works shift work and is also a emt for 2 townships and a detective for a da's office locally). He says he only works alot because he hasn't found the "perfect woman". I haven't seen him since but have talked to him a few times though. When I asked him if I would see him again he said that he wants to be friends until he has more time since he as a very demanding job and works a lot. So is this a guys way of blowing me off or is he being serious and really does want to see me when he's not so busy? He does always call me back even though it's not right away because of his job. And when he leaves a message on my cell he never says his name just "it's me". So did he just use me or does he really want to see me again? [sIZE=2][/sIZE] [sIZE=2][/sIZE]
jerbear Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I'm thinking he is intersted but more in a friends with benefits.
whichwayisup Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I hate to say this, but I think you may have slept with him too soon...Seems he got what he wanted, and now he's giving you the "busy" line. If he really adored you and wanted to pursue you, he WOULD and not give you some lame excuse about work blahblahblah...
SmoochieFace Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 This is why is a good idea to not hop into the sack so soon. Most guys will take the sex and run that early.
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