juliainoz Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, we have been exclusive since he asked me aroiund a month into the relationship, and he exchanged the i love you's with me around 6 weeks into the relationship. He has been in long term relationships before as such. In the last few weeks he has been seen to be needing more "space" and time by himself - ive noticed this since we went away togehter for a night and we spent 2 nights and 2 days together. Most of my friends think its bad as he should want to spend all of his spare time with me, while other friends think its good for him to have space. He says (and he is quite upfront) that nothing is wrong between us, he loves me very much, is in it for the long term, but he likes having a balance of being by himself - doing what he wants to do eg working on his car, watching tv, using the computer, or just doing stuff having a beer at his house and spending time with me and/or my son. I have nothing wrong with giving him space, and im quite happy to see him twice/three times a week. He also contacts me once a day by either phone/sms/text (usually phone) when we are not together (except once or twice he hasnt) so what do u think - do u think its a bad thing or ok?
TheSwordfish Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 OK, if he calls everyday, and teh two of you have lots of tiem together, whats wrong with some space?
Author juliainoz Posted April 14, 2006 Author Posted April 14, 2006 i dont think there is anything wrong with that, but people have been trying to put words in my head that there is something wrong with someone not wanting to spend all the spare time with me. im quite happy to give space
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