mikeyboy1990 Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 OMG i love my girlfriend. We been together for 6 months. But lately it like she not interested in me no more. Like before when we switched classes during the bell in school she use to run up to me and put her arm around me and say heyyy baby. But now she like doesnt do that stuff no more. Or like now she doesn't call me alot like she use to. Or when were on the phone she doesn't talk alot but before she use to. And like now she says mean stuff to me like screw you when she gets mad at me. I try giving her space like not being over her alot but then she says I'm pushing her away. Really idk what to do. Is this just a phase in the relationship like a boring dry spot? Before she use to care so much about every little thing she said to me but now it like whatever because she said that she doesn't got no problem saying that to me. I asked her why is she changing and she like you can't expect me to be the same forever. It's okay to change but she is changing the important things about her that i love so this is not right to me what she is doing. I asked her why she doesn't have a problem saying these things to me and she like oh because i know your always going to be there no matter what so it shouldn't matter. But hey guys I do have problems of my own like she said I make a big deal out of things. But you know whats the funny thing when she does stuff its not a big deal but when i do stuff it is a big deal. I told her about how i feel and it just doesn't work. I really love her and she loves me and i dont want to break up with her. Because she has been there for me threw thick and threw thin. Can you guys please give me some advice on these all the problems above because if this stuff doesn't get fixed soon i have a feeling it going to rip apart our relationship and everything. Please help me i beg of you this is really serious what's going on. I'm about to call her on the phone in a while so could you guys please give me some advice on what to do about this and how to approach it carefully?
JadeStar Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 she says, "oh because I know you're going to always be there so it doesn't matter." This statement she has made says she is basically taking you for granted. She feels you will always be there, so she can do or say whatever to you. Is that how you want to be treated? Its possible too she may be growing apart from you as well. You might have to make a decison about the relationship. Jade
SmoochieFace Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I take it that you are 15/16... correct me if I'm wrong. Your GF is probably around the same age too, right? She's confused. Most teenage girls are big time. She's *changing* because that is a part of adolescence - finding her identity and place in the world.
tinktronik Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I take it that you are 15/16... correct me if I'm wrong. Your GF is probably around the same age too, right? She's confused. Most teenage girls are big time. She's *changing* because that is a part of adolescence - finding her identity and place in the world. Surprisingly well said , Smooch . I agree.
SmoochieFace Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Surprisingly well said , Smooch . I agree. Yeah, I have my moments of *unjerkiness*!
Guest Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Idk if she is really growing apart from me right now. But do you guys think like maybe things will get better maybe this might just be a phase like i said i juss don't know but like what do you guys think? Oh yeah i just got off the phone with her and she said she ain't in the mood for talking on the phone not cause she doesn't want to talk but because she just wasn't in the mood. To me i feel like she doesn't really care if i call or not but then when she misses me then she expects me to call. Omg girls are so confusing!
Author mikeyboy1990 Posted April 14, 2006 Author Posted April 14, 2006 I dont really know if she is growing apart from me or not. But like i said earlier maybe it is just a phase. Do you guys think so? Or maybe im just having a sixth sense about this maybe she is not board or not interested in me like how i think she is. Any opions on these theories or opinions of your own would be appreciated
Author mikeyboy1990 Posted April 14, 2006 Author Posted April 14, 2006 she says, "oh because I know you're going to always be there so it doesn't matter." This statement she has made says she is basically taking you for granted. She feels you will always be there, so she can do or say whatever to you. Is that how you want to be treated? Its possible too she may be growing apart from you as well. You might have to make a decison about the relationship. Jade But i think i found my answer about the problem about her not being interested in me no more. Well see her mom is really strict and when me and my gf go somewhere after school her mom stalks me and my gf to see what we are doing. My gf does not like this so it causes her to not like want to go to places of whatever and not make out. But anyways me and my gf don't spend no time after school together and we barely go to places together after school anyways and when we do its the same place everytime and thats mcdonalds and we have not been to any other places together. Maybe she might not be interested in me no more becase she does the same routine with me everyday. This is our routine: I meet her outside of the school in the morning, Then i sit with her at lunchtime in school, then i meet up with her while switching classes, then i talk to her in gym, then school is over and i drop her off at home, then i leave to go home myself. Thats pretty much the same routine everyday. Do you guys think this might be the problem? If so can you help me
JackJack Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 It could be several things. I doubt its that her mother is to strict really, becasue if thats the case she wouldn't act the way she does to you at school too. So its possible shes either growing apart from you, and trying to figure out what she wants etc. It happens to most teenagers. Or shes interested in someone else, and perhaps shes confused by the whole thing. Have a talk with her let her know how you feel on the matter, if shes willing to come clean and let you know what the deal is fine, if not and she keeps acting the way she is, cut your loses and move on.
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