Guest Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Okay, so I met this guy that I like (a lot) a month ago. He happens to be related to one of my good friends, but we did not meet through her. Anyway, when we first met he was polite and curious about me: where I was originally from, where I went to high school (which is how I found out that he was related to my friend, and actually graduated a few years ahead of me from my high school). Anyway, we are from the same area (which is really something seeing as how there are so few people that lived in the cornfields with us--seriously, we are from ten-buck-two), but we met in a different state than where we are originally from. Anyway, he is a really private person, I try to ask him some questions at least once a week that would constitue as "personal" (weekend plans, etc.), and he always answers, and he occasionally just tells me something, or relates a story of mine to him. So, we seem to get along really well. Also, in the begining, he would wink at me constintly. He is a really touchy guy (with guys and girls), so I don't think he means anything when he touches me, but he did feed me once, which I have never seen him do with anyone else. I was shocked when he did it. So, I don't know. Well, the other day was my 21st B-Day, so he and a couple of our mutual friends took me out, and I got smashed in front of him (so embarrassing), but I didn't say or do anything inapproprate. He was so kind to me; I thought that he would comment on how horrible I acted the next day, but he told me that he had seen partiers (he use to be one), and I certainly acted fine for how far gone I was, and for that being the first time I had ever drank. Which brings me to another bit of info: he is always talking about how innocent I am; he calls me "youngster" or "young lady", and he is always giving me candy. So, I feel like he thinks of me more as a younger sister or something. Also, I don't drive, and he is always telling me to get my licence. Why would that concern him, unless he wants me to drive somewhere to see him? Okay, so he already likes me as a person, but I just don't know if he likes me as anything more. Anyway, since you don't know him, I guess you can't really say for sure, so I guess what I should be asking is, how can I get him to like me as more than a friend? I mean, we are already well aquainted, so I don't think the "glances across the room" is going to work. I mean, usually when I like someone it is like our relationship starts out flirty, etc. But with him, I didn't think about him as anything more than a nice guy at first, so I wasn't really flirty. Now I am affriad that he just likes me as a friend, and I will never be able to take it to the next level. Help, please! I mean, I have never felt like this about anyone! Ahhh! It is driving me mad!
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