lobsterbabe Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 Yeah, so what's that about? How come it's so hard for him to say it, but yet he's already given me keys to his place (which he hasn't done with anybody in a very, very long time)? Oh, and we just celebrated our 1-year anniversary. Guys, why oh why?
submart Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 My one year anniversary is coming up soon and I never heard those words either. Good news is that if/when he says it, it will really come from the heart and is not because he's in the honeymoon stage! Just think about that. Have you ever told him you loved him?
PlentyLV007 Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Why is the L word so Important? Why can't you just be happy with him giving you his aparmtnem key...HELLO do you know how big that is!!! That's huge! =) I've been dating someone I really like for about a month and I still haven't brought him up to my place. I mean I'm so into my space that I'm scared to let someone in. You should be very happ and just be satisfied with the key because most guys don't ever do that! Man y aren't most women ever satisfied with Actions that do speak louder than words? Have you ever though that maybe he doen'st like to say the L word?
blind_otter Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 Why is the L word so Important? Why can't you just be happy with him giving you his aparmtnem key...HELLO do you know how big that is!!! That's huge! =) I've been dating someone I really like for about a month and I still haven't brought him up to my place. I mean I'm so into my space that I'm scared to let someone in. You should be very happ and just be satisfied with the key because most guys don't ever do that! Man y aren't most women ever satisfied with Actions that do speak louder than words? Have you ever though that maybe he doen'st like to say the L word? Not everyone is like you, different people value different things.
PlentyLV007 Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I understand that people value different things...but I want to know what the big deal is/?? I'm curious?
SmoochieFace Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I understand that people value different things...but I want to know what the big deal is/?? I'm curious? I'm curious as to why you feel so strongly about this. Did your parents ever say "I love you" to each other?
blind_otter Posted April 14, 2006 Posted April 14, 2006 I understand that people value different things...but I want to know what the big deal is/?? I'm curious? I replied to the thread you started.
Author lobsterbabe Posted April 15, 2006 Author Posted April 15, 2006 Thanks for the replies. No I have not said I love you to him yet, at least not in person. But I did say it one time in an email (two months ago). And when we write off, we say "Love, (insert name here)." Not I love you. And yes I know it's a big deal that I finally have keys to his house. I understand the significance of it. But it just puzzles me that he can't say it. His actions do tell me that he loves me. However, saying I love you (to each other) would bring our intimacy up one notch. So to me it IS a big deal. I mean, if he hasn't said it by now, would he even say it at all?
Rosalind Posted April 15, 2006 Posted April 15, 2006 Together a year, and still no "I love you's" exchanged?!? That IS a big deal IMO.
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