PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 You guys know what I'm talking about....(singing) I don't see nothing wrong....with a little bump and grind!!!!! Is somthing wrong w/ me or what? I've been seeing this amazing person for about a month now and well I have a bizzillion of other things on my mind but, when I'm with him I know they should all dissapear but they don't. Now there are certain kisses and touches that he gives me that drive me crazy but, for some reason we haven't been intimate yet..... I mean...I'm sure he's thinking WTH? I know I'm!? He's a very sweet and respectful person. A couple of times I had to kinda help him out on touching me just so I can get off.... =) I feel that he's holding back too....it seems that when we drink he's so much more relaxed and more confident than he is sober which is not good! Should I initiate the first time? He hans't stayed over, or even seen my place yet. I don't usually need any advice in this department but in this case since I really like this guy, I don't know if I should wait for him to come around or maybe he's waiting for me??? I actually wanted it to happen by itself but, HELLO MCFLY...it's been a month!!!! :p :p
Yamaha Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Maybe he's a virgin. A virgin would be very shy and scared to go there or maybe he had a bad experience with a girl and it scared him for life. Maybe you can be his teacher as most guys, by now, would have condom in hand. He might be a keeper if you are patient.
MadDog Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Get him over to your place. Turn down the lights a bit. Make out for a while & proceed to push him away for a second to take off your top. If any guy can resist the urge to immediately get it on, he's gay & you're wasting your time anyway.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 Keeper "definetly". I know that he is. No he has a 3 year old son so I know he is no virgin. See at first he said that most girls give in by the 2nd night. He asked me why I haven't yet!!??? I told him because I actually like him! If I didn't really care for him but, I was attracted to him....oh it would have been on!!!
Yamaha Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Then I would do as Maddog suggests and get him in the mood for love. If he backs out you need to find out why.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 Get him over to your place. Turn down the lights a bit. Make out for a while & proceed to push him away for a second to take off your top. If any guy can resist the urge to immediately get it on, he's gay & you're wasting your time anyway. U know Mad Dog...me and you see eye to eye and you have to know that I respect u! If you were my neighboor you would be one of my best friends!!!! You've given me right on answers all the time!!! I love it!!! Ok...get him to my place...is it weird that I'm actually nervous with this guy!!! Like my first time...gosh it makes me feel so silly!!! GAY!!!! I've made out w/ him at my mom's house!!!HOT!!! He is such a girl....I'm not going to lie..he is very emotionally feminine. U know how girls arch their backs when they are really into in....HE DOES THAT !!!!! :lmao: I couldn't laugh at him directly but, I was laughing inside!!!
MadDog Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 U know Mad Dog...me and you see eye to eye and you have to know that I respect u! If you were my neighboor you would be one of my best friends!!!! You've given me right on answers all the time!!! I love it!!! You too. It'd be fun as hell to have a friend like you to hit up the clubs with. I'd bet you'd make a great wingwoman. Ok...get him to my place...is it weird that I'm actually nervous with this guy!!! Like my first time...gosh it makes me feel so silly!!! GAY!!!! It's been a while since I've been in that situation too. Enjoy it. Psychological pleasure is hard to come by. I've made out w/ him at my mom's house!!!HOT!!! He is such a girl....I'm not going to lie..he is very emotionally feminine. U know how girls arch their backs when they are really into in....HE DOES THAT !!!!! :lmao: Haha. He's not one of those EMO guys is he? They say opposites attract & you're proving it. Come to think of it I generally end up with super-feminine chicks as well. It hasn't worked out too well in the long run though so it might be time for me to look for those tomboy turned hottie type chicks.
Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Oh MY! If a guy arched his back I would sit up and say "Whoa Momma" Hey ho babe good luck with this lil lady .. Ooops I mean man! hahhahaha
Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Ps ...... Next time you see him, pull out a big strap on and if he starts jumping up and down on the spot and clapping his hands ... RUNNNNNN!!!!!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 You too. It'd be fun as hell to have a friend like you to hit up the clubs with. I'd bet you'd make a great wingwoman. It's been a while since I've been in that situation too. Enjoy it. Psychological pleasure is hard to come by. Haha. He's not one of those EMO guys is he? They say opposites attract & you're proving it. Come to think of it I generally end up with super-feminine chicks as well. It hasn't worked out too well in the long run though so it might be time for me to look for those tomboy turned hottie type chicks. Mad Dog let me know when you need a wingwoman....that's why all my good friends are guys....I mean they had to get over the whole "cmon let me hit it" but, after they got over it....we've been friends for over 10 years!!!! They love me like family!!! EMO GUYS? What's that?
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 Ps ...... Next time you see him, pull out a big strap on and if he starts jumping up and down on the spot and clapping his hands ... RUNNNNNN!!!!! LOL :lmao: Oh man...that was funny!!!! No it's just that emotionally he is so like a girl. I guess that's why we get along so well because I'm not. Intimately you can tell he likes it nice and slow and romantic like...I don't!!! We will have to see....yet when I pull out the toys he better not start using them on him!!! or else....(singing) hit the road jack!!!
Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Yeah hon opposites do attract and you probably like him so much because you compliment each other! It will happen soon and when it does it will either be WOW or ::Yawn:: I dont think there will be an in between here! I think he is just scared and that is why things have not progressed yet! I am too girlie for a girlie guy but if you are more tom boy it should be fab when it does happen I am just picturing you going down on him and him arching his back screaming high pitched "Yes baby ooooooo ahhhhhh" hahahhahahha Oh or maybe he was waiting a while to get his Brazillian done for the occassion? hahahhahha
MadDog Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Mad Dog let me know when you need a wingwoman....that's why all my good friends are guys....I mean they had to get over the whole "cmon let me hit it" but, after they got over it....we've been friends for over 10 years!!!! They love me like family!!! EMO GUYS? What's that? I need one for this weekend. What are your plans? EMO is that super s***ty music that lots of college people are into nowadays. It's all about being emotional & being a pansy at large. The songs basically sound like some dude whining while playing an acoustic guitar he learned to play recently. I don't see what chicks see in guys that cry more than they do. Things go in cycles though. It's a matter of time before being ultra tough & manly like I am will be cool again.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 I am just picturing you going down on him and him arching his back screaming high pitched "Yes baby ooooooo ahhhhhh" hahahhahahha Oh or maybe he was waiting a while to get his Brazillian done for the occassion? hahahhahha :lmao: :lmao: OH LISHY...girl you made me laugh. You know how long it's been since I've laughed that hard!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! My eyes watered.... Funny you mention brazillian wax....he trims!!!! =) LOL :lmao:
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 I don't see what chicks see in guys that cry more than they do. Things go in cycles though. It's a matter of time before being ultra tough & manly like I am will be cool again. Funny you say that ....I can't stand when people cry...the way I see it it's an excuse for us to feel sorry for them but I don't fall for it. I never believe a person's tears...it's like blackmail!!! As cruel as it may sound...I can't even stand it when my mom cries...it's like OMG....what are you crying for???!!??? Female emotions are out of control!!!! I told him I can't stand that whole mushy stuff....(singing) feelings...nothing more than feelings.... I'm a "actions speak louder than words"....
Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 I love a guy who trims! Who wants to go down on a guy with sherwood forest growing from his nuts? Not me thats a fact! I remember years ago I was with a guy who I really liked - When I got in his pants his pubes where longer than his dick! Not a good look! In all honesty though babe the longer you leave it, the better it will be! Dont rush it now, wait for the perfect time and it will be fabulosa!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 13, 2006 Author Posted April 13, 2006 II remember years ago I was with a guy who I really liked - When I got in his pants his pubes where longer than his dick! Not a good look! In all honesty though babe the longer you leave it, the better it will be! Dont rush it now, wait for the perfect time and it will be fabulosa! :lmao: :lmao: Oh man...you so made my day!!! Thanks hun!!!
Lishy Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 You are welcome honey!!!!!! Hey lets just hope he does not mention birth control to you incase he gets pregnant! and give him my number so I can help him pick some nice lingerie for the 'BIG BANG!
MadDog Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 I remember years ago I was with a guy who I really liked - When I got in his pants his pubes where longer than his dick! Not a good look! Holy bejesus. Either he had the longest pubes on earth or he had a really small johnson. Thats kinda like taking off a girl's top & seeing a mosquito bite on her arm was bigger than her tits. Not that I like them huge, but still.
Lishy Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 Well that was a slight exageration but they where well long! I was jealous that he had longer pubic hair than the hair on my head!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 13, 2006 Author Posted April 13, 2006 Holy bejesus. Either he had the longest pubes on earth or he had a really small johnson. Thats kinda like taking off a girl's top & seeing a mosquito bite on her arm was bigger than her tits. Not that I like them huge, but still. its' nice to know what you call your private!!! Really!!! I dont think that can actually be possible...Mosquito bite be bigger than a womans titts NO wAY!!!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 13, 2006 Author Posted April 13, 2006 Well that was a slight exageration but they where well long! I was jealous that he had longer pubic hair than the hair on my head! :lmao: :lmao: My co workers are curious why I'm laughing my ass off....they want to laugh too...I'm still at work just to laugh with you guys!!!! =)
Lishy Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 He had quite a meaty schlong when i parted the jackson five hair do!
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