funkyfries Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Hi, There's a guy I study with who seems to be interested in me - makes lots of eye contact or just stares, has been flirty (in social settings) and told my friend he thought I was fit (cute)...but when we're classes he doesn't talk to me....and he hasn't asked me out. He doesn't seem that shy as he has come up to me before and been sweet/made effort to talk to me. BUT still he hasn't said/done anything and it has been sometime. My friends say I intimidate him but I don't think thats the case. SO what I need advice on is how to get him to approach me (I am somewhat shy and old-fashioned in the sense that I believe its the guy place to ask a girl out....sorry if that irritates some but that my personal opinion). All advice is welcome;-)
SuperMonk Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Yo that's fine with that part being "old fashioned" I feel more like a dude when I am doing a bit of persuing. We men are here to DESTORY AND CRUSH THOSE THAT STAND IN OUR WAY... ... Be flirtatious, be submissive to him, use those female jedi mind tricks. Surely in time the tide will move your way.
Guest Posted April 16, 2006 Posted April 16, 2006 Yo that's fine with that part being "old fashioned" I feel more like a dude when I am doing a bit of persuing. We men are here to DESTORY AND CRUSH THOSE THAT STAND IN OUR WAY... ... Be flirtatious, be submissive to him, use those female jedi mind tricks. Surely in time the tide will move your way. Thanks for the advice.... What do you mean by 'be submissive'... The thing is that I don't want to come across as overbearing - I am a confident person but when it comes to guys I find it attractive when they are confident enough to make an effort so without reversing the roles too much...how can I be sure that he is still interested and what reassurances can I give him to get him to open up? Plus I do want him to feel like he has 'earned' my attention - not in a stuck-up why but, having been around a few male friends it seems that guys generally appreciate being with someone they have chased and got rather than her come up to him or 'being easy'....is this the general male view??
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